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[Evaré]

:lol:

I am shier still, Krisi, trust me. I am 'scared' of women, but Evara can still scare men... I mean lawyers. ^_^

oh well some unseen messages.
I am going to reply right from here. everybody watch Evar... He Insulted A woman right in front of your eyes. <_<

 

[Evaré]

Thanks a lot, I'll always remember this . Very profoundly said and delivered.

I've always known the loneliness in all this -- that the odds are always against you. And who can say, it waits on its time? I can only open myself to the element of surprise in Dasein. If it doesn't happen, that will still be okay, I've seen and experienced other singular surprises too, though exclusively in solitude.

Actually I've tried one or two of the opposite sex, and it has given me so much lonely pain of not being profoundly or simply understood, especially in the paler, more abstract regions of the soul and the intellect... I mean beyond all the sensitive demands even, while I'm not a spoiled person (Aspie) at all -- I've had a harsh childhood and adolescence, but, while melancholia often persists underneath singular tenderness and an intellectual life, that hasn't made me cold or despondent.

I've seen a movie in which a father (single parent) who truly understands his long motherless son even tells him, "Who would marry you?"

But I do know that love and intimacy is not just a possibility. The Earth meets the ocean underneath the starry night sky. The light that falls from up there may not occur often in the span of many, many years. But, across the silent, lonely distance, I do know that such light happens through burning at the nuclear core of stars. At least, here on Earth, I understand it... that some kind of burning could result in union.

Again, I do not have to experience the cornelian understanding and tenderness with such an exceptional female (I can't even demand it), but knowing someone like you, who has experienced it, already makes me deeply grateful.

I may have heard of Eliot's "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock", but I haven't read it. I shall.

Please start the new thread!

Good Approach Evar! :blink:
how all that happened in only one month! :|

 

[Evaré]

Me too, I was terrified of women until I was pushing 40. Still absolutely clueless about them, but I can probably officially downgrade "terrified" to perhaps just "a little scared at times".

I am curious as to the link between Evar and Evara. I'm guessing that all will be revealed at some point.

Almost forgot: welcome Evara, hope you are as much fun and as enlightening as your male counterpart.

Thank you but hey! it's not maybe always about who is more terrified men or women. I can say upuntil your mid 20s we have been passing an age of women claiming their being scared but now look who talks more about it.

I tell you a story: two classmates share rooms but then the male goes to just a party and comes back after two years the other just asks him constantly why why why why you #$@#@#4 ... until she breaks down or leaves or stays.
but the other way... she is to go to a long trip, she calls home. he's not there. she calls again he is not there. she call's her friend's house. there he is sharing room for some time! the girl comes back. ask why. he say you left and I had to understand you! Hey sweetheart I thought that's what you wanted.

what is all the "all" about in your guessing? :wtf:
Ps: now. Hello. :ball: