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I just feel ashamed of myself. I wish I was cured, im getting autism support to help me but its only temporary. Its difficult, ive lost friends, have no social life, only one person i trust in the whole world
 
I just feel ashamed of myself. I wish I was cured, im getting autism support to help me but its only temporary. Its difficult, ive lost friends, have no social life, only one person i trust in the whole world
You don't need a social life, you can live alone and achieve things that matter like make apps, art, any type of art, etc.
 
But you need people around dont you. I am not creative, I hate programming, programming caused me mental health issues
Make fictional friends, say hello in the chat here, and someone comes, Just follow keep following and repeating tutorials of art and programming, they don't require any brain power, you can just watch TV or something similar for the rest of your life, see RPG video games, they are very long.
 
Make fictional friends, say hello in the chat here, and someone comes, Just follow keep following and repeating tutorials of art and programming, they don't require any brain power, you can just watch TV or something similar for the rest of your life, see RPG video games, they are very long.

I dont know. I want to do more, but need help support to do so
 
I dont know. I want to do more, but need help support to do so
Just go to some big member profiles like Rodafina or Aspychata, and then start a private conversation with them, explain them that you need someone for your whole life and then they might accept you. Aspychata seems more friendlier.
 
Im confused, now dont know whether ive made a mistake joining here
Hope you are not still feeling this way. Sometimes, we jump in too far, too fast. Anything we can do to help you process these feelings or make you feel more comfortable here?
 
I dont think so. I can be very blunt with people,but when people do the same thing back to me, it hurts my feelings, i get sensitive and very upset extremely easily if people are very blunt. I can dish it out but cant take it in, whethers its an autism thing or what i dont know
 
I dont think so. I can be very blunt with people,but when people do the same thing back to me, it hurts my feelings, i get sensitive and very upset extremely easily if people are very blunt. I can dish it out but cant take it in, whethers its an autism thing or what i dont know
I understand that.

I would imagine, too, since you are new here, it is difficult to trust our directness and perceive it as care and concern. I’m sure you can logically understand that, but trust takes time.

I hope you stick around, and you’re always welcome to pop in and out if you don’t want to be here all the time.
 
I dont think so. I can be very blunt with people,but when people do the same thing back to me, it hurts my feelings, i get sensitive and very upset extremely easily if people are very blunt. I can dish it out but cant take it in, whethers its an autism thing or what i dont know
Do something after those moments, like playing RPG games, they are long enough, you will forget it after a while. it works for me. You also don't need creativity to make art, only to make new art, you can just keep drawing things around you, then sketch and make them look like proper paintings.
 

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