Fern_14
Well-Known Member
Well, what I say is pretty much what I mean, but when I forget the words--it gets confusing. The word I was looking for, is "learned helplessness." Beware. Learn as much as you can, but be cautious to preserve your own plan currently of "get tested to really know," and use it as a strength instead of succumbing to other peoples' telling you that you can only do this or that.
(and thank you for the well-wishes but it isn't my birthday; I didn't put my real birthday on the internet!)
Ohh okay that makes sense! Thank you for the warning. I'll keep it in mind.
