Oh, my boyfriend didn't know then (when we were last together) that he was an Aspie. He just found out within the past year and recently reached out to me to let me know.
And I also am not always so nice. I take responsibility for my part in things not working out before.
You make a good point about testing the waters first. I guess if you think there is chemistry, then tell. Just don't wait too long.
Thanks for the advice. Forgot that u said he didn't know he was an Aspie until later.
There r lots of posts on here where Aspies r talking about relationships. Those will tell u a lot about what might have happened in your relationship.