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How do you get a girlfriend?
First of all, why do you want a girlfriend? Are you interested in her as a person, or is it your sexual drive talking? Very few people that I know like to be seen as a target or a goal, they want to be valued for more than what they have between their legs.
I don't know how old you are or anything about you, but if you wanted me to be your girlfriend, for example, you would find out what I am interested in. You would also have interests of your own. You would know enough about what you like and what you want out of life that you would be looking for someone who shares those interests and values. You would take time to get to know me and allow me to take time to get to know you. You would be a confident person, not desperate or clingy. You would respect yourself and respect others.
You mentioned seduction. I want a man who is as interested and as passionate about getting into my MIND and my HEART as he is my pants. Seduce my mind, intrigue me, arouse my curiosity so I can see what you have to offer (other than the purely physical).
That is how you do it.
If you find it very hard to talk to girls face to face do it online, try signing up to groups/forums/whatever revolving around your interests and don't make a sexual gf/bf relationship your goal, many people are friends first before it develops into anything else (more so online unless you are specifically on a dating website). Just to re-iterate what the others have said you want to find someone with similar interests/values etc, it's all good and well finding someone you have the hots for but what if (using a random example) you LOVE video games and she finds them boring and won't play them (which long term could develop into nagging you everytime you get on your xbox), wouldn't it be more fun to find a girl who loved video games (or whatever you are into) just as much as you do?
Don't let distance be an issue for you either, if I'm remembering this right King_oni's gf lives 100 miles away, when I first got talking to my husband online he lived 300 miles away he started visiting every weekend and eventually I moved in with him, I know of several other couples who made long distance work. Many years ago another forum I went on a girl from the UK was planning on moving to the US to marry her long distance boyfriend of 5 years (she would visit him once a year and he would visit her once a year for a couple of weeks each time but they spoke every day), don't know if it ever happened, last time I went on there she was sorting out a visa/the wedding etc.
Good luck![]()
how do you get a girlfriend?
simply getting a date is easier said than done. Most Aspies would agree.
How do you talk to a girl and get her to like you?