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Hello Tarliki, I'm new here too and the place is making a favourable impression on me. An interesting crowd and they actually talk to you! Very high standard of conversation. Hope you will feel at home. :sunflower:
 
Tarliki said:
My name is Tarliki. I'm an emigrant from Wrongplanet. I was a member on Wrongplanet, which there were many great things about the forum not gonna lie, however certain members on that forum were very toxic and some even hateful so I decided to abandon ship. ive struggled my whole life to find my social niche, partly because humans can sometimes be irrational troglodytes and very hard to deal with, but also partly because I have my own social issues that I need to work on. its a 2 way street, with it neither being all other people's fault nor all my fault. I cant change others as much as I try but I can try and work on myself and try again to be make friends and have valuable social interactions.

I've never fit in anywhere in my life and feel sad and depressed, like I'm not meant to exist or like I wasn't meant to be loved. after wrongplanet didn't work out for me I gave up hope of ever finding a niche, for after all if I cant fit in on an autism forum for those who are different, then I cant fit in anywhere. ever since the debacle on wrongplanet ive sunk into greater and greater depression, until eventually I began to lose hope that life would ever change.

yet part of me couldn't stop hoping that I would one day find the place where I belong. I cant go back to wrongplanet, but I'd like to give here a chance and see if it fits.
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Hello and welcome,

I hope here you will find the peace and aceptance you are looking for. I can relate to some of your feelings, I left many of my hobbies and talents behind to try to become a person mean to be loved.

After reading "How to make friends and influence others" from "Dale Carnegie" I decided that if most dogs can be loved by humans, I should be able to do it as well. It may sound like a very stupid thing, but It helped me to stay on track.

Well, the point is that I relate to your feelings and that I welcome you. :)
 
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