I seem to develop feelings for aspie girls and only aspie girls

[Sparticus]

I wonder what chemists would think of this?! Ok I'm tired...hmm I wonder if there are Scientists who specialize in human attraction? Yes...silly me, the dating field...though I admit Dr. Ruth on TV was a gas to watch....

There's a "dating" Professor of Rutgers...oh if I could only remember name. Dr. Fisher? She has written some cool stuff.

Bottom Line: There are no guarantees when it comes to "chemistry"...no matter what your neurology may be.

 

[Sparticus]

Aaaahhhh but they are the most fun! ;D Unless of course you give them ALL the keys to your life...before fully knowing them. I'm guilty of doing that...

I call that crazy sex...the "I'm going to lose 5 lbs before tomorrow morning..."

I have to admit, I really go for the crazy ones. Always have. Now whose fault is that?

 

[Judge]

Aaaahhhh but they are the most fun! ;D Unless of course you give them ALL the keys to your life...before fully knowing them. I'm guilty of doing that...

I call that crazy sex...the "I'm going to lose 5 lbs before tomorrow morning..."

Guilty as charged. I'm so ashamed.

Or not.

 

[Sparticus]

Excellent observation Ereth. It could be an addiction. But with Soup's advice [get to know them first before dating them] and yours below, I've been observing and slowing down my attraction towards potentially unstable/toxic people.

Thanks for your feedback!

It's quite possible that you're attracted to "emotionally dangerous" people, Sparticus. Stranger things have happened.

 

[Sparticus]

Plus I've discovered a way to become very attracted to a stable potential partner. I just slow down the dating process...and don't rush into anything I'm not really into.
If someone of quality shows up, it's their inner energy/personality that will really turn me on. I guess I'm maturing...had to happen sooner or later...

Excellent observation Ereth. It could be an addiction. But with Soup's advice [get to know them first before dating them] and yours below, I've been observing and slowing down my attraction towards potentially unstable/toxic people.

Thanks for your feedback!

 

[Sparticus]

Remember those mornings waking up saying "what did I do last night?@" Or worst "who did I just marry?" :-0

Guilty as charged. I'm so ashamed.

Or not.

 

[Judge]

I've never rushed into anything. But when it comes to women it's more of a case of diving into a swimming pool without any water.

Or as Jimmy Stewart so eloquently says in the film How The West Was Won, "I done seen the varmint."

A friend once told me she thought I reminded her of the character Jeff Daniels played in "Something Wild". I love a "free spirit". Always have...

 

[Sev]

Great minds think alike.

Simple minds seldom differ. ~ Just a thought there, Judge

I don't think that Aspie girls are any better/worse than other NT girls and would certainly not classify them as "witches" or "indecent", as you have.
However, I haven't personally met a girl who has made it open knowledge that she is Aspergers. Of the people I have suspected of being on the spectrum, I have found their minds extremely attractive; maybe its an male Aspie thing? hehe.
I guess this could do with the fact that I find that I'm able to relate to them more than with others...I'm not sure though.

As an after-note that came from an NT friend of mine (yes I actually have an NT friend, and even more surprising...NTs can have good ideas/thoughts sometimes) Aspergers has a vast number of traits that are quite similar to the Myers-Briggs personality type, INTJ.

Anyways, of the most interesting things said about INTJs is that they are more likely to find love, when they are not looking for it. So just chill out, find a good hobby, go to some group gatherings, hang out with friends and eventually you'll find one of these "decent" girls.

Disclaimer: Obviously Aspergers affects people differently and we might not all be INTJ (shock horror) but many of the traits do overlap, so it was worth mentioning.