Chris Russell
The Talentless Liar
You're Batman... you don't need social skills!Definitely the poor social skills.
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You're Batman... you don't need social skills!Definitely the poor social skills.
You're Batman... you don't need social skills!
My lack of motivation for key tasks. I'm very much motivated only by things that I find interesting. If something isn't interesting then it's at risk of being forgotten about. Which is dangerous to mI y development really. These are things like passing my driving test, a field of work to go into. Pretty important stuff and it's just incredibly hard for me to do them. I don't know why. I've yet to really meet someone else like that. It just feels incredibly lonely to be like this.
It feels to me like my attention and the task I don't want to do are like poles of two magnets pushing each other apart.
If you have the money you can also use upwork.com contractors like getting a VA.
Very much so, yes. It makes me feel like I'm just lazy. No professional has ever really told me if what I experience in that regard is an autistic feature or not. I just feel like what some people say about me is true. That I am just lazy. Or even worse I'm trying to use a symptom of autism to cover up the fact I'm lazy. It's hard. It's just hard.
Nice idea but I'm not always going to have the money to afford to do that sort of thing. Besides it would feel like I'm a failure at carrying out things that makes someone an adult.
I don't know if this is related to ASD or not, but the anxiety of being around people.
Thank you for being able to say that. I have spent all my life on the constant struggle to fit into some kind of person I was assured of that being the most healthy work. I am able to adapt and create new ways as unexpected changes occur yet, is very much a process.id hate to change anything about myself,i am used to being me and i would detest any change i dont care that i leave myself with some quite significant communication,sensory,interaction,behavioral and social impairments,i wouldnt be me without them,i really hate any kind of change.
I am so new to much of the experience of being diagnosed and being never endlessly searching for constant feeling out of sync with every person and every day.I wouldn't change me. NT's pride themselves in being weird/different. Why should I change myself?