A key principle of Buddhism is that people naturally experience reality, but they do it through experiencing "illusion"
In other words, they see what is there, but misinterpret it.
Example:
Person "A" sits down to eat the breakfast that person "B" makes daily, before "A" has to leave for work.
On this occasion, breakfast isn't ready, and "A" goes to work hungry.
"A" is ticked off because they feel that "B" has let them down, and, by doing that, has shown "A" disrespect.
In this example, their are two main "illusions."
The first illusion is that "B" has let "A" down. This is an illusion because, before "A" came to the table, "B" received a phone call from their mother with bad news, was upset, and didn't make breakfast.
By not realizing this, "A" is the one who let "B" down.
The second illusion in this example is "A's" belief that "A" deserves special respect for merely existing.
In reality, each person begins (hopefully) with a certain degree of respect. After that, a person either adds to, or subtracts from, the respect due to them via their actions.
By assuming that "B" was at fault rather than finding out what happened, "A" ended up deserving less respect.
The "cure" for illusion is to understand, and dispel ignorance. In the above example, the illusion is dispelled as soon as one understands what REALLY happened.
In other words, they see what is there, but misinterpret it.
Example:
Person "A" sits down to eat the breakfast that person "B" makes daily, before "A" has to leave for work.
On this occasion, breakfast isn't ready, and "A" goes to work hungry.
"A" is ticked off because they feel that "B" has let them down, and, by doing that, has shown "A" disrespect.
In this example, their are two main "illusions."
The first illusion is that "B" has let "A" down. This is an illusion because, before "A" came to the table, "B" received a phone call from their mother with bad news, was upset, and didn't make breakfast.
By not realizing this, "A" is the one who let "B" down.
The second illusion in this example is "A's" belief that "A" deserves special respect for merely existing.
In reality, each person begins (hopefully) with a certain degree of respect. After that, a person either adds to, or subtracts from, the respect due to them via their actions.
By assuming that "B" was at fault rather than finding out what happened, "A" ended up deserving less respect.
The "cure" for illusion is to understand, and dispel ignorance. In the above example, the illusion is dispelled as soon as one understands what REALLY happened.