I've been trying to learn a second language since I was 11 years old but I still suck at it. Like, I might understand a few disconnected words in a sentence, or short phrases. But my vocabulary is super tiny because I keep forgetting everything. Is anyone else going through something like this? Is anyone else here trying to learn another tongue?
What's that second language?
I'm teaching myself German with Duolingo (the app) now, but it's my fifth language, not the second. I learned the second and the third a long time ago, with regular classes in language institutes. I could travel abroad to practice them, too.
English, my second language (although I might have had some of it left in my unconscious because I lived in the US for the first two years of my life), was mostly self taught.
I was a teenager back then, and I would have never dreamed of the wonders that exist today available in internet to learn a language. Back then, I listened to my parents' LPs, such as The Beatles, and learn the lyrics that came written on paper, or I'd read all The Baby Sitter's Club books with a dictionary by my side, for example.
Anyway, if you want to learn a language, you have to convince yourself that if a baby can, so can you! And you have to make it fun and immerse yourself in it.
For example, I downloaded the app TuneIn (in which you can find radio stations all over the world) so I can listen to a German station everyday while I prepare and have breakfast, so my brain learns even if I'm not paying attention.
A language has to do a lot with listening, with getting the accent, that's the way babies learn. They listen and repeat, over and over, even if they don't get what they're saying at first.
When my kid was six-years-old (he's also an aspie) he used to watch Curious George over and over for like six months, for example (for him English is his "first" language, because that's how I raised him, even though we're in a country that speaks another language, or that English isn't my own mother tongue).
I also watch Peppa Wutz (Peppa Pig in German) because that cartoon has a great pronunciation in English for beginners, so I guessed that in German it would be the same. It is, I can almost understand a whole episode now.
The most important part is that you get to have as much contact with the language as you can, and have fun! And also take advantage of all the resources that internet offers.