Aeolienne
Well-Known Member
I wish the programme makers hadn't harped on about my qualifications so much - it makes me seem such a has-been, defined by an achievement from the last century.What struck me, was how someone such as yourself who is so highly educated and qualified, could not find suitable employment.
My recollection was that my willingness to travel / relocate was barely touched upon. Indeed the short film gives the impression that I had lived with my parents continuously since graduation, which is definitely not the case - in fact you could say that I'm paying the price for my earlier success by being disqualified from claiming benefits (see previous postings in this thread). If I'd had more control over the programme I would have liked to have done some filming in Bristol - cue footage of me strolling along the harbourside and saying to camera with a straight face: "Bristol's like the book that I have opened and now I want to read much more..."You were clearly willing and able to travel, and to be flexible, while offering commitment and loyalty to an employer who recognised your skills and strengths.
I've been told more times than I can count to use the STAR method, which is an acronym for how you're supposed to answer a competency-based question: Situation, Task, Action, Result. The problem I have with this is that with many of the projects I worked on in the past, I was moved on to something else without getting to see the outcome - so I honestly don't know what the Result was (or I wasn't involved with it even if I did know). I said as much once to the facilitator of an interview skills workshop (who worked for Mencap, of all things), and all he had to say in response was: "Work it out for yourself!" Charming.Interview questions tend to often be the same so perhaps what might help is to learn the most common questions, and plan replies in advance.
When I look back at my work history, I struggled to pinpoint anything I've achieved. I've even tried contacting former managers or colleagues for advice has to how I could say more about the projects I've worked on, but none of them have replied.
The standard advice for interviewing Aspies (e.g. this) says that hypothetical questions should be avoided. I must be an exception: I would much rather be presented with a description of a situation and invited to imagine what I would do in that scenario than have to rake over my past for evidence.