mellowriot
Active Member
Hi there,
So I joined this site specifically with the goal of learning how to communicate with girls.. now in person, I have little to no trouble, well, I can manage? , I have, I guess developed a set of rules or algorithms that help me navigate a conversation (that is of course including MANY MANY MANY if's) and generally in person, rejection is a bit easier. Now, none of this applies to a text conversation. I suck at these! I cannot tell intentions at all. I cannot understand the use of language, at all! if the girl isn't engaging, by her own will, I just don't know how to create any want? in her, is maybe the thing I'm trying to say? I don't know.
so maybe we could I don't know, analyze these messages and decipher what it is thats going on in them. because I swear, I have no clue.
Me:
that pic you posted is just wow
white girls with dark lipstick drive me wild, you look gorgeous.
I must admit, I think I might feel a little lucky that I found you
her:
thank you awww
me:
oh and I passed by your writing account, your poems are becoming a story all of their own. I like it.
have any idea whats going to happen next?
Is the main character going to be lucky in love or let down?
her:
we shall find out
me:
haha fair enough
so today I bought a camera, I'm 1 step closer to that yt channel / podcast that I always talk about but never get around to doing lol
how was your life today?
**silence**
so yeah, the best thing I could think of is that she never asked me if I bought a camera or not, so why am I telling her this. where as I was hoping to maybe get her to say something vulnerable about her day. maybe something like "oh today I finally got around to doing such and such too".. thats the way I picture text conversations working.. which I guess isn't how they actually work?
So I joined this site specifically with the goal of learning how to communicate with girls.. now in person, I have little to no trouble, well, I can manage? , I have, I guess developed a set of rules or algorithms that help me navigate a conversation (that is of course including MANY MANY MANY if's) and generally in person, rejection is a bit easier. Now, none of this applies to a text conversation. I suck at these! I cannot tell intentions at all. I cannot understand the use of language, at all! if the girl isn't engaging, by her own will, I just don't know how to create any want? in her, is maybe the thing I'm trying to say? I don't know.
so maybe we could I don't know, analyze these messages and decipher what it is thats going on in them. because I swear, I have no clue.
Me:
that pic you posted is just wow
white girls with dark lipstick drive me wild, you look gorgeous.
I must admit, I think I might feel a little lucky that I found you
her:
thank you awww
me:
oh and I passed by your writing account, your poems are becoming a story all of their own. I like it.
have any idea whats going to happen next?
Is the main character going to be lucky in love or let down?
her:
we shall find out
me:
haha fair enough
so today I bought a camera, I'm 1 step closer to that yt channel / podcast that I always talk about but never get around to doing lol
how was your life today?
**silence**
so yeah, the best thing I could think of is that she never asked me if I bought a camera or not, so why am I telling her this. where as I was hoping to maybe get her to say something vulnerable about her day. maybe something like "oh today I finally got around to doing such and such too".. thats the way I picture text conversations working.. which I guess isn't how they actually work?