Uh, not sure, it's hard to find a girlfriend or boyfriend. A lot of people are just unwilling to socialise or have horrible people skills. What I mean by that is that many people are horribly selfish and unpleasant to be around. I gave up on socialising too, but because I don't have any need to talk about something at the moment and most people I meet walk right through my boundaries all the time and won't listen when being told about it. I don't like them. I don't know what happened, but it wasn't like that some 10 years ago when I was at school, and it was possible to meet a non-egoist and have an actual fun time with someone else. Not saying decent people aren't out there, but for some reason, they are perhaps fed up and sitting in their own homes as well.
One thing that strikes me about this time, is people are so open about mental health and their efforts to improve wellbeing. Yet, we seem to trust each other less and less. I can't help but wonder how people are applying this information. I share many of their struggles as well, though, so I don't say that with a sense of superiority. I think it's sad if people are fed up socializing instead of being able to find those they can get along with.