Yes, I'm all for accepting the characteristics of others that cannot be changed, because they are an integral part of who or what they are (ex. their interests, talents, skin colour, age - whatever). Now answer this for me - how many children do you know who go around proclaiming they are 'straight' or 'gay'? The correct answer should be zero, because at that age people are just not interested in sex! At that age they also don't care about things like 'identity politics', unless of course these things are foisted upon them by well-meaning, but sinister, adults.