This is my so called solo first female friendship in my life. I now believe it will be my last so it's too late to know what red flags too look out for next time which will be never.
Me and Madison would message all the time although most of the time I would have to message her first before she would respond which is a red flag of a textationship. She would respond within a few hours sometimes more quickly so she did read her messages. She would give me very inspiring messages which would lift me up and make me feel better.
The big red flags was when I tried to just hang out with her as a casual friend and she said just church friends and Sunday only. Then when Sunday comes she will often say on her texts that I will see you on Sunday we will talk but when Sunday can't around she no longer came to me. I often had difficulty finding her. When I did find her and wanted to catch up for the week and about our personal messages she would often say I got to go and make up the same crap excuse like I am meeting a friend and busy but never mentioned it in her text messages about meeting up on Sunday.
The last straw which I am not going to repeat myself you can read my post history was the tipping point and she was one of the factors of why I changed churches recently.
Me and Madison would message all the time although most of the time I would have to message her first before she would respond which is a red flag of a textationship. She would respond within a few hours sometimes more quickly so she did read her messages. She would give me very inspiring messages which would lift me up and make me feel better.
The big red flags was when I tried to just hang out with her as a casual friend and she said just church friends and Sunday only. Then when Sunday comes she will often say on her texts that I will see you on Sunday we will talk but when Sunday can't around she no longer came to me. I often had difficulty finding her. When I did find her and wanted to catch up for the week and about our personal messages she would often say I got to go and make up the same crap excuse like I am meeting a friend and busy but never mentioned it in her text messages about meeting up on Sunday.
The last straw which I am not going to repeat myself you can read my post history was the tipping point and she was one of the factors of why I changed churches recently.
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