My son got hurt at school

[Kathy Thomas]

That it was on his rear end, is different than anywhere else. If it were my kid, I would launch a full investigation and get my kid out of there ASAP. I would homeschool if I had to. The amount of abuse toward autistics is making me want to scream. Obviously someone was rough with him in some capacity. Protect your child because no one else will!

Thank you, I pulled him out of that school immediately and started an investigation. I also took him to the hospital to get checked to be safe. Investigation is still ongoing.. the school tried to send me truancy letters cuz they don’t consider sexual assault investigation a good enough reason to keep him out of school. He is in another school now closer to home, they were able to take him now that he is 5 and he seems so much happier here.im still a nervous wreck tho.

 

[Kathy Thomas]

Find out in the school who was wearing a bandaid on their head... just please for the love of Pete... do not ignore this thing... investigate

Unfortunately the officer didn’t seem to think that his drawing was evidence and seems to blowing off all of our concerns and told us that this scratch will have to remain a mystery so we are requesting a different investigator because that is not acceptable. Thanks for your response

 

[Kathy Thomas]

If his skin is scratched and bleeding but his pants aren’t torn then his jury happened with his pants down. Right? And his underpants would be down too.
Something isn’t right here and I don’t blame you for being concerned. Do you know any of the other parents so you can discuss concerns. You may not be the only one noticing a problem.

Unfortunately I don’t know any of the parents. My son only attended this school for two months. Something isn’t right here and I’m glad you agree cuz the cop is making us feel as though we are over reacting. He said he questioned the para and looked him in the eyes and “he is a good man” and that maybe my son scooted across the floor.... but his pants and underwear are NOT TORN!! It’s driving me crazy knowing that man is back to work with other children. We’re doing everything we can to get to the bottom of this.

 

[Kathy Thomas]

I have to say that if there was a simple and obvious explanation such as having snagged against a sharp edged toilet roll holder or something, they likely would have noticed at the time and would have explained that already. I don't want to get the OP wound up or upset at this stage because we really don't know much, but what we do know doesn't add up particularly well.

The paras story has changed multiple times, he said he has never been alone in the bathroom with my son, but we found out he was alone at the time the blood was found. He said he never seen my son naked but has cleaned him up after multiple accidents cuz my son isn’t fully potty trained. He has also said my son only pulls the front of his pants down to pee so he never even sees his butt but that’s not possible for my son to do and also at the time that he discovered the blood he was changing my son into a pull up for his bus ride home so that means mom son had no pants on.... so how can he say he’s never alone and never seen him naked when he does every single day and I have papers signed by him daily that day so... seems suspicious to me

 

[Kathy Thomas]

If the para omitted this out of the norm it would be different also. But apparently she doesn't follow the rules of the day care and probably should be reprimanded and either start complying or lose her job. I'm not taking the seriousness out of your concern, I would be greatly concerned, too and would be watching like a hawk. The daycare I had my kids in had cameras in all the rooms and at any given time you could go in the office and watch your child. I think all daycares need cameras.

The para writes down every other time during the day that he takes my son to the bathroom except for the end of the day when he undresses my son to change him into a pull up for the long bus ride home... why is that the only time every single day he leaves out? And that’s the time where my son was discovered hurt. Trust me... I don’t want to believe anything happened to my son but there is so much evidence that suggest otherwise

 

[Joshua the Writer]

Seems sketchy. What the para is saying is doesn't add up. Nobody can just simply put a pull-up on a small child and NOT see said small child naked.

 

[LogicalMind]

Its over, your son is safe. That is all that counts.

 

[Kathy Thomas]

Its over, your son is safe. That is all that counts.

It’s actually not over, my son is safe for right now but has to live with a scar on his butt for the rest of his life. What about the other children in that mans care? My friend/neighbor has a non verbal son that’s about to start at the school very soon. So I’m supposed to let her send her son to school with that man everyday. What happnes if/when something happens to her little boy?? I can’t sit back and let other children get hurt. You would never tell that to a child/person that was a victim of physical, emotional or sexual abuse. There is many more occasions like when my son was sent home soaking wet with the sole of his shoe torn off (new shoes only a month old) but no note or call as to what happened. I was told she was too busy to call or write a note. every time my son gets injured I don’t get notified but if he wets his pants or has a bm the write it down. Don’t you think a parent should be informed of an injury? I do.

 

[the_tortoise]

I was told she was too busy to call or write a note.

That's appalling.