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Clay Gifford

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Hey Everybody!

My name is Clay, and I’m 20 years old. I was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome at the age of 12, but didn’t accept it until about 3 months ago. It has been unimaginable how much growth I have made in the last 3 months. I feel hope more clearly right now than I have since I was little. These last 8 years I’ve spent so much time and energy trying to fit in, that I had nothing left to give. They were filled with multiple anxiety attacks and meltdowns every day, and living in a constant state of deep depression. I spent almost half my life trying desperately to be someone who I am not, and I’m so excited to find who that person is.

I’ve actually never met anyone else with Aspergers before. (That I know of.) & it literally brought me to tears when I found this forum a couple of nights ago. It’s constantly blowing my mind that I’m not the only person in the world that deals with certain things I thought no one else would ever be able to comprehend. (Like remembering what shirt someone was wearing on a random thursday 6 years ago.)

Right now I’m just doing my absolute best to look at Aspergers as a positive thing, and from the bottom of my heart I want to thank everyone on here for helping. I haven’t talked to any of you yet, but I already feel like I have a new family.

Anyways, I own a photography business, and have transitioned into shooting mostly commercialy. Things such as watches, shoes, and other various products. (In an attempt to avoid working with other people most of the time.) I enjoy writing poetry, making music, and do my best to read a new book every week when I can actually take in more information. Somehow I got a smokin hot babe to marry me, and I love spending time with her too.

I’d be interested to hear if anyone has anything in common with my interests, or if anyone else works as a professional artist?

Thanks again for welcoming me everyone, I’m so excited to be a part of this.
 
Welcome Clay!
Glad you found us.
I felt right at home when I first found this group also.

I have written a lot of poetry, a few songs and love to paint. I like photography and used to be a photographic model professionally.
 
Hello Clay welcome to the forum, I'm sure you're going to fit right in. There are some great people here who understand and share much of what you spoke about.
 
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Hi Clay and welcome!
I trained as a photographer, but struggled to make a living at it as people mostly wanted me to do things like weddings and family portraits. Way too hard for someone like me. But I still enjoy taking and making art photos. I have many other creative interests as well.
 
Hey Everybody!

My name is Clay, and I’m 20 years old. I was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome at the age of 12, but didn’t accept it until about 3 months ago. It has been unimaginable how much growth I have made in the last 3 months. I feel hope more clearly right now than I have since I was little. These last 8 years I’ve spent so much time and energy trying to fit in, that I had nothing left to give. They were filled with multiple anxiety attacks and meltdowns every day, and living in a constant state of deep depression. I spent almost half my life trying desperately to be someone who I am not, and I’m so excited to find who that person is.

I’ve actually never met anyone else with Aspergers before. (That I know of.) & it literally brought me to tears when I found this forum a couple of nights ago. It’s constantly blowing my mind that I’m not the only person in the world that deals with certain things I thought no one else would ever be able to comprehend. (Like remembering what shirt someone was wearing on a random thursday 6 years ago.)

Right now I’m just doing my absolute best to look at Aspergers as a positive thing, and from the bottom of my heart I want to thank everyone on here for helping. I haven’t talked to any of you yet, but I already feel like I have a new family.

Anyways, I own a photography business, and have transitioned into shooting mostly commercialy. Things such as watches, shoes, and other various products. (In an attempt to avoid working with other people most of the time.) I enjoy writing poetry, making music, and do my best to read a new book every week when I can actually take in more information. Somehow I got a smokin hot babe to marry me, and I love spending time with her too.

I’d be interested to hear if anyone has anything in common with my interests, or if anyone else works as a professional artist?

Thanks again for welcoming me everyone, I’m so excited to be a part of this.

Hi Clay. It looks like you have a great attitude and variety of interests. You will be able to really relate to many of the persons here. @Sherlock77 is heavily into professional vintage type photography of people, cars and nature. He is a great guy, and creates beautiful photographs.

I am into writing books, creating artwork, and doing some musical things. I am unsure what exact conditions I have, if it is just Social Anxiety Disorder with perfectionism traits, or perhaps higher functioning Autism, as my wife and I have two smaller Autistic children. Regardless, I see it all in a positive light.
 
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Hello Clay :)


I can remember when I first found this site. It's an awesome feeling when you find your own tribe isn't it? :D
 
Welcome Clay! I often feel that Asperger's Syndrome is both a blessing and a curse. I wouldn't trade my unique perspective for the ability to fit in, but it can really be hard sometimes. It's good to see you have such a positive attitude about it all. Have fun getting to know your new family!
 
I’d be interested to hear if anyone has anything in common with my interests, or if anyone else works as a professional artist?

Hi Clay, I worked as a commercial artist in Canada, for some time. Funny most of the art that sold were illustrations of objects, animals and landscapes, literally nothing with people in them, come to think of it. Do a little photography, mainly related to using it in art, or places I want to remember.

Glad you found us, I remember how I felt when I realized I wasn't the weirdo my family used to call me, when I came here. Made me feel better. Welcome^‿^
 
Hi there Clay, welcome to the Community. I'm sure you'll find here many people that share the same experiences and interests as you. Just spend some time here and don't be afraid to talk. I can assure you that most of us have been 'there'.

I never sold my art but I do indulge in writing prose and poetry, painting, reading books and sometimes a bit of photography and wood carving, though none professionally. I'm going to buy an instant camera soon for myself as I wanted to have one for a long time already, though. Are you maybe able to recommend one?
 
Hi Clay. It looks like you have a great attitude and variety of interests. You will be able to really relate to many of the persons here. @Sherlock77 is heavily into professional vintage type photography of people, cars and persons. He is a great guy, and creates beautiful photographs.

I am into writing books, creating artwork, and doing some musical things. I am unsure what exact conditions I have, if it is just Social Anxiety Disorder with perfectionism traits, or perhaps higher functioning Autism, as my wife and I have two smaller Autistic children. Regardless, I see it all in a positive light.

I was called? Welcome Clay! I photograph lots of different people, that artform called street photography... Most of my photos I ever take do have people in them actually... :p James Tworow Photography (@thereal_sherlock77) • Instagram photos and videos
 

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