So I am finding out. This whole thread is making me really sad because I didn't realize that the consensus was "don't tell anyone". I mean, it makes sense why when you see these stories, but it's so lame that people won't even bother to try for people that they claim to care about.
Your friend might be a little on the squirrely side, I’m guessing. I can’t imagine why someone would go into shock because a friend told him he’s autistic. How long have you known this cream puff? I’d be nervous about future contact with him, lest something I say make his hair turn white overnight.