Hi, Mia.
Instead of sadness that some family did not treasure this quilt,
consider that the family probably let this quilt go to find a better home.
I shop almost exclusively at thrift stores for many reasons---
not least among them that the manufacturing of clothing and textiles
extracts a huge environmental toll.
Whilst shopping in these thrift stores, I am often overwhelmed with the
possible histories of the items that I see. I can get "lost" for quite some time deducing some,
imagining yet more, of the past lives of these items and their givers.
Some induce sadness, some melancholy, triumph, nostalgia, joy, --- the list is nearly endless.
No matter what I may think of an item and it's possible history, or those that relinquished it,
I know, without a doubt, that it took an act--- not a passive "allowance"---
for it to end up in the store.
Somewhere, someone felt that someone else may want, or even need this item.
I have seen some of the greatest joy wash over a person finding a simple item like
the one that you found--- It may have been their only shelter against a long cold night.
And so, when I must eventually finish my "shopping", and leave the store, I am always left with
a powerful sense of love.
Charity is love.
Don't be sad for perceived neglect--- be joyous that you are able to safeguard such a treasure---
and then rejoice again when you are able to pass the love that this quilt has accumulated
on to another appreciative soul, knowing that you have imbued it with some love of your own.
Think I'm going to get dressed and head down to the thrift store, now.
Who knows what'll be waiting there, for me.
sidd