We are all part of a community of human beings. No one "deserves" anything, not even love and respect. Everything is earned. Now, we can get into the the analogies where if one considers goal-oriented behaviors, reaching a $1,000,000 in personal wealth, experiencing true love, having the respect of others, etc., then truly, we are all born into a world with advantages and disadvantages, where those goals are closer or further away from us, right from the start. It is what it is. Life and one's path through it will never be fair and equal. That doesn't happen, ever.
That said, about you hating what is going on, the soulless behaviors, etc. You are interpreting these things on a personal level, but your observations are on a much larger scale and effect all of us.
The terrible consequences of "fair and equal" policies, governmental control of educational curriculums, etc. is stripping high-performing individuals of their ability to reach their potentials. In some cases, "dumbing them down", slowing progress, or worse, the downstream effects of inhibiting individuality and widening the distribution of wealth. This concept of "sameness", these naturally tribalistic behaviors that we embrace are being systematically incorporated into the corporate and governmental policies and laws. We don't want age, sex, race, sexual orientation, etc. etc. to influence who gets what and when, but then it does exactly that when quotas are involved. Sounds good on the surface, but it has its consequences. Socially, some people hate the wealthy, the intelligent, anyone perceived as having some sort of "privelige", so our "knee-jerk" response is to try to inhibit that, and in some cases, reputation destruction or violence against them. We don't like competition. We don't like winners and losers. We love "sameness". We want to blur the lines of individuality, even try to question the differences between XX and XY. Social and mainstream medias are perfect tools. It is a social manipulation strategy that appears "grass roots", but is actually being controlled from the very top. It's all under the guise of "equity and equality", but it is basically "control". Get the "have nots" to rise up in protest, a "savior" will rise up with their support, and this is how authoritarianism takes over, with a rousing applause, and the deaths of millions. We've been witness to these little social experiments before, better known as Communism, Socialism, and Fascism, or variants of that. Control the people, make them all the same, and redistribute all the wealth upward.
Now, you are correct in that "something is going on". There are groups of individuals, powerful enough to transcend beyond governments, the real power holders. They have been playing the "long game", methodical, calculating, for hundreds of years, at the very least. They are the ones who manipulate governmental policies and actions as if it were a game of chess. More and more people are becoming aware of this. Our freedom to choose, be individuals, to live our own lives, is ever so slowly being picked away in order to gain control over the masses. If you want to know who these people are, look no further than the World Economic Forum, as an example.
Now, having said all that, people who are "alone" in this world, the autistics, those people who generally spend their lives on the periphery, those who do not follow, could actually be the voices of reason within all this, the tiny lights in the darkness. We could be the "resistance", if you will. So, personally, there is a part of me that says embrace and love those people who are close and important to you, but don't get obsessed with this need to be the same as everyone else. Be realistic in knowing the value of the individual, even if things are not fair and equal for you, personally.
