I was on a talk show once. Way back about 20 years ago. The topic was "Revenge". I was on there about something I did to this b**** who was supposed to be my friend and originally was, but my husband cheated on me with her. She was also 10 years older than me, 50 lbs heavier than me and a whiner. When we got to Chicago to be on the show, the producers told us to be emotional and over the top. I wasn't going to do that though and told them so. I told them I refuse to act trashy on national TV and they would just have to deal with me calmly and politely explaining what I did and why I did it. Also, nothing I did was illegal and could have put me in jail or anything, so it was ok. I also dressed nicely in a pretty pink floral print dress with a full skirt that even had a crinoline under it and my hair and makeup looked nice and my husband looked nice in a nice suit.
My point about posting that was that since they told us to be over the top and emotional and overplay everything, and this was just a talk show, I'm sure they do that about the reality tv shows where people do that. Also, lots of people are drama queens and are just loud and emotional anyway and it doesn't effect them to the same extent it would somebody who wasn't normally that loud and dramatic and emotional over everything. I know lots of people who are that way and they overreact to almost everything and get over it really quickly. So, those reality shows may 1. tell people to react that way for the camera, and 2. recruit people for the shows who are naturally drama queens about things. I don't really ever feel emotional stuff either way from the reality tv shows. I usually just see it as either bad acting or like the people I know who blow everything out of proportion and an hour later are just fine.