NlGHTgirl
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Is it possible, to under react or over react empathy? when a homeless person starts to talk about his cracked teeth falling out, it is extremely upsetting to me! I can almost "feel" what he is describing to my own teeth!!!! I can "feel" or visualize or empathize too much, I must ask the person to please stop describing so much details, I can't stand it! I listen to NPR for news instead of TV. I respect and love myself, I only want to have pretty picture images in my head!
On the other hand, I could totally understand how someone can detach......
Exactly, great point. What the other poster said. There is great disparity between poverty and CEOs, the 1% and all. There are people starving and suffering in far away lands right now. Wouldn't humans just go around crying constantly? Seems like many of the general population have some level of detachment some times. If there was tons of empathy around, would humans let other humans starve or suffer in far away countries? ever? Do you suppose it could be "normal" to feel numb after extreme tragedy of 911 or mass shootings??? It is too emotionally draining to go around crying all the time. It was not my immediate family involved, so, I'm not exactly, um.sure that I am attached too much??? I can ponder project/predict other people's feelings though.It is not always correct prediction. is that the totally wrong words? Oh my gosh, It's beyond my comprehension!..... I only have kind or happy inside me?
I'm not exactly sure how much "Aspie" traits I may or may not share. I'm not very stoic. I have too much energy! oh, and usually lots of excessive exclamation points! heh heh
A child, near and dear to my heart, drew how she was going to become a veterinarian. She constantly talks about animals, not so much happy about people interactions. So, the child's drawing only contained animals; there were no people pet owners! ha ha! My entire family has some slightly different qualities.
Once, I self described as "confused Vegan" . We love animals here! Would only eat them for survival, as necessary. Like Humane treatment , maybe cage free or something? We would never want to destroy life, not even in dissecting animals. It does not bring me education. But perhaps it helps others. I prefer the books, photos, diagrams. I do not need to destroy stuff. aw...
On the other hand, I could totally understand how someone can detach......
Exactly, great point. What the other poster said. There is great disparity between poverty and CEOs, the 1% and all. There are people starving and suffering in far away lands right now. Wouldn't humans just go around crying constantly? Seems like many of the general population have some level of detachment some times. If there was tons of empathy around, would humans let other humans starve or suffer in far away countries? ever? Do you suppose it could be "normal" to feel numb after extreme tragedy of 911 or mass shootings??? It is too emotionally draining to go around crying all the time. It was not my immediate family involved, so, I'm not exactly, um.sure that I am attached too much??? I can ponder project/predict other people's feelings though.It is not always correct prediction. is that the totally wrong words? Oh my gosh, It's beyond my comprehension!..... I only have kind or happy inside me?
I'm not exactly sure how much "Aspie" traits I may or may not share. I'm not very stoic. I have too much energy! oh, and usually lots of excessive exclamation points! heh heh
A child, near and dear to my heart, drew how she was going to become a veterinarian. She constantly talks about animals, not so much happy about people interactions. So, the child's drawing only contained animals; there were no people pet owners! ha ha! My entire family has some slightly different qualities.
Once, I self described as "confused Vegan" . We love animals here! Would only eat them for survival, as necessary. Like Humane treatment , maybe cage free or something? We would never want to destroy life, not even in dissecting animals. It does not bring me education. But perhaps it helps others. I prefer the books, photos, diagrams. I do not need to destroy stuff. aw...
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