I always had a tenuous hold on employment, at best.
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They definitely do.Someone needs to do a study about adults with mild autism who can function but have needs and due to the difficulty finding employment, severe depression that results. Being unemployed has become my full time job. I wouldn't waste my time volunteering if I am going to work, I'm going to get paid for it. Problem is, there just aren't many jobs that are well suited to people with varying types of autism. Like me I am pretty verbal but terrible at math and science and putting things together. Others may be great at math or putting things together or whatever.
my skillset/aptitudes don't match the requirements of America's workforce, it seems.
It's good for the soul....meow^^^helping cats is a pretty good deal all around![emoji2]
^^^helping cats is a pretty good deal all around!
I swears our feline friends can cure society's ills [emoji3]Amen to that! Some of my best friends are cats! Bob (pictured as my avatar) is a Manx cat ... hence his name because he has a bob-tail. Bob has tolerated me for 15 years and with any luck he'll be with me for a few more.
Pictured below are my cats. I used to have four but Jasper Baby (whose leg is lying on top of the tuxedo cat) passed away last year. JB was Bob's brother.
Bob and JB came from what is now a defunct cat rescue shelter in central Texas.
Scraps (the huge gray with tiger stripes) was a rescue kitty. Some idiot parked outside my home in Pennsylvania and emptied a box of 6 kittens. By the time I was able to get to the sidewalk with a camera to take a picture of this jerk's license plate, the pickup had sped off and the kittens had scattered. I later found one of the kittens under my neighbor's porch. He was screaming, "EEEEE-OWWWW" at the top of his voice because it was cold and wet and he was hungry and afraid.
When I knelt beside the porch and reached for my flashlight, he threw himself at me and clung to my winter coat with all four claws. I took him home where he got a very cold reception from Bob and Jasper Baby. I isolated him in a guest bedroom and gave him warm water to drink as well as a small bowl of dried cat food. The poor little guy gobbled up the food and promptly threw up because I had overfed him.
It was my original intention to nurse him back to health prior to taking him to a shelter ... but ten years, two states, and six moves later and he's still with me.
The tuxedo cat is Princess Tabitha Panda Kitty Toe Biter ... but I mostly call her Tabitha (or Tabs) for short. She is the only female in what is otherwise an all male household and as such, she is universally adored ... hence the Princess honorific.
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I swears our feline friends can cure society's ills [emoji3]
I don't have the misunderstandings I have with humans. Pets are awesome. I have two cats and two dogs. One of my cats sleeps beside me and meows at me from the top of the stairs to come to bed.
At the moment I am unable to have a cat. The next best thing I guess will be volunteer work with them. You're correct about human beings needing certain amounts of socialization. I'm hoping the volunteer work will give me some "meow" time and some socialization.Scraps is the only cat who sleeps with me. Bob and Tabitha will visit but with Bob getting along in years, he doesn't like the window mounted A/C that I have in my bedroom. I like sleeping in a cool room ... so after our nightly visit which includes petting and brushing and kitty treats, Bob will sleep on the floor beside my bed in an electrically heated kitty bed that feels like one of his favorite sunny spots.
Tabitha who is my adventure kitty, uses the coolness of the night (since I live in Nevada which is quite warm), to prowl the backyard.
I have a pet door that gives my cats access to a fenced back yard. The boys like taking the morning air but given how hot it gets at mid-day, all of them prefer to lounge about in my home from late morning through mid-evening. On weekends when I'm home, they hang out just to see what I'm doing and will casually follow me from room to room.
They're great companions and having cats to talk to and to care for helps offset any feelings of loneliness that I might otherwise have had. Even though I am a reclusive introvert, I think people still have a need for some degree of contact. Being social appears to be part and parcel with being human ... but since I am gainfully employed, I get all of the social interaction I really want or need at work. The cats take care of the rest.
My only regret is that they can't be trained to do housekeeping. Other than using a litter box, they're really quite indolent. They are the Lords and Lady of the house ... (sigh)