Wearing diapers/ nappies

[Cutesie]

My wearing of diapers is mostly as a fetish. I also wear for convenience - especially when taking long walks. Someone who likes diapers has the advantage of not being grossed-out by using them for practical reasons. There's also a small babyish element to my wearing.

My "little" side is about much more than diapers. It includes using pacis, onesies, babytalk, listening to music and watching shows for kids.

 

[aspieoutlaw89]

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i would've wore these when i was 13,especially if i got any encouragement from my mother or foster mother(s) .

 

[Cutesie]

https://posh.mk/f6g5oe9GkRb

i would've wore these when i was 13,especially if i got any encouragement from my mother or foster mother(s) .

You would've worn them for medical need or because you liked diapers?

For those not interested in clicking on a random-looking link, these GoodNites TRU-FIT pants are regular underwear, but with space for a pad insert.

I wore them when already a grown-up and really too big for them. They're even less absorbent than standard GoodNites, and are no longer available.

 

[aspieoutlaw89]

You would've worn them for medical need or because you liked diapers?

For those not interested in clicking on a random-looking link, these GoodNites TRU-FIT pants are regular underwear, but with space for an insert.

I wore them when already a grown-up and really too big for them. They're even less absorbent than standard GoodNites, and are no longer available.

i was being a bit sexually expressive than i was when i was wearing black underwear,which felt like panties when i did,i also had a stuffed animal plushie that i used for a sex toy .

 

[Cutesie]

i was being a bit sexually expressive than i was when i was wearing black underwear,which felt like panties when i did,i also had a stuffed animal plushie that i used for a sex toy .

To each his own, of course, but my plushie (I've only got one) would never be involved in anything sexual. It even makes me feel a bit uncomfortable when he's around if I'm doing that.

By the way, it's good to see another New Yorker here who's both autistic and into diapers. Do you go on any ABDL websites? ADISC is wonderful.

Can I bring you, @Misty Avich, back into the conversation, even though you last commented a year ago? I just want you to understand something: Someone whose brain isn't wired to like diapers, or to act like a baby in other ways, can't ever truly get it. It's not your fault.

Whether "factory-made" or as a result of certain life experiences, we have these desires - and it's not by our choice. While you're correct that, unlike someone with incontinence, we have the choice to abstain, it would be a very, very difficult choice, one that would be suppressing real needs that we have.

I don't think that you would truly want us to choose such suffering. (Yes, suffering.) If you saw into my brain during an extreme attack of anxiety, then saw how calm I can get just by using a bit of babytalk and thinking as a baby, I don't think that you'd tell me to stop - just because it's strange and your mind can't comprehend how such a thing can be beneficial.

Please forgive me if my words appear harsh. I'm just trying to make ourselves clear.

 

[Cutesie]

I want this to be clear: It's perfectly fine to have an opinion. Saying that you can't understand the pull to wear diapers is fine. So is asking us how we could enjoy such activities. Some of us will be happy to explain what it is that they do for us, how they make us feel and how these interests developed within us.

What, in my opinion at least, isn't okay is to mock and shame us. (I'm not saying that anyone here did so.) It's definitely not okay, especially after having it explained or having an offer of an explanation, to accuse us of horrible things like pedophilia, which too many people are quick to do. So long as we're not hurting anyone else with our actions, it also should be wrong in our tolerant society to tell us to stop doing them.

 

[aspieoutlaw89]

You would've worn them for medical need or because you liked diapers?

For those not interested in clicking on a random-looking link, these GoodNites TRU-FIT pants are regular underwear, but with space for a pad insert.

I wore them when already a grown-up and really too big for them. They're even less absorbent than standard GoodNites, and are no longer available.

if they had something like these when i was 13,i'd even ask my mother if i can i wear them,then she asked why afterwards ? smh .