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What Are You Afraid Of?

Spiders. Especially the really venomous ones.
Also, the large ones like tarantulas, bird spiders, Huntsman, Hobo, Wolf, and such.

Lightning. Living in Florida is wonderful for someone afraid of lightning.

Flying. I would have to be sedated to get on a plane.

Driving long distances alone. I try to stay in a 10 -mile radius of the house when driving alone.

The Final Destination. Death.
Not so much about what happens afterwards, but what it will feel like as it is happening. I hope it will be quick and painless. Maybe under anesthesia.
 
Heart attack, stroke, blindness and deafness.

Deep water and quicksand.

End of world scenarios - asteroids, supervolcanoes, grey goo, escaped viruses etc.

AI - Skynet style situation.

Ed
 
Right now, I can't think of anything that makes me afraid. That doesn't mean I don't act with prudence and mindfulness when they are called for. That is how you avoid getting into situations that might make you afraid.

If then something bad happens, it happens, and no amount of fear will prevent it.
 
I am really afraid of snakes. To the point of feeling afraid when I even think about touching one.
I`m also really afraid of hearing I have an illness which cannot be cured and knowing I won`t have too many weeks/months/years left. Like cancer.

But I also have quite a few irrational fears.

To say I`m afraid of heights is an extreme oversimplification. Because I do not really fear rollercoasters. My fear is a little different. When standing at something that is heigh. I have the fear I lose control of myself and my brain/body desides to jump of. That is why I will never stand on a balcony or something else height. I`m afraid I do something stupid. This fear extends to my children when they are standing on a balcony or something heigh. I`m afraid they might jump or fall of to the extend that I cannot watch them standing on it even if there are other people like their mother or grandparents to watch them.

For this same reason I will never hold a gun. I`m too afraid my mind will play tricks on my and I deside to shoot myself. The funny thing is, is that I do hold knives and other objects I could kill myself with. Sometimes the fear comes, but I see it as irrational and move on. But with guns I cannot do that.

Same goes for sleeping pills. I will never try them. Because I`m too afraid I will have a weak day and take to many. That I lose control over myself and just swollow them.

A lot of the above I have never shared, so it felt weird typing them out. But this seemed like the place to share.
 
It's funny how I can calmly remove a big spider I find in my bathtub without harming it, but I'd almost rather squash a human being or run it down the drain.
 
Bodies of water, mostly because of drowning.

Heights over... let's say 6ft.

I'm not exactly afraid of spiders, but I jump / startle  very easily to touch, especially to light touch, like being tickled or when a bug or spider is crawling on me, and I am very scared of involuntarily squishing a harmless little critter. Large spiders, like tarantulas, I'm fine with.

I am afraid of stinging insects, though.
 
I am most afraid of getting pulled away from life so quickly (heart attack) that I have no time to process it and say goodbye to others.
Well, we're all dying. Process it and say your goodbyes now... then you're ready ahead of time. :)
 
Caves where you have to crawl on your stomach through tight passages. Nope. Nope. Nope. That fear of getting stuck, underground, in the dark, no forward, no backward, OMG!
 
I stopped flying after 7 JUN 2023; Boise-to-Louisville was my last flight. My first non-infant flight was in spring of '73 when Dad was taking lessons and I sat in the back cargo space of a Grumman American Yankee Clipper trainer, held down by cargo straps as Dad & Instructor did their thing.

20 months later, Dad was taking night-flight lessons and on the night of my 8th birthday, we were up...and almost got hit by a very large twin engine plane gone rogue. I cannonballed around the cabin, hit the Plexiglas canopy, landed between Dad & Instructor...then panicked hysterically. They managed to calm me down, we landed. But I kept on flying.

On 1 SEP 2021 I was on a jet, Boise-to-Chicago, headed for Louisville. Over Kaycee, WY at 39,000 feet doing 600 mph, a jet was ahead to the right...grew bigger, bigger, angling in...and screamed by us, at our exact altitude, within 1/4 mile. It was a 757 but all I saw other than that was robin's-egg blue & white in a somewhat distinguishable pattern. I went into shock, like Roy Scheider in Jaws...said nothing. Our plane banked to avoid it, almost too late...snd we retracked. By FAA law, that jet was either supposed to be 1,000 feet above or below us.

That was the 15th anniversary of my friend's own death, in a Jeep accident.

2 days later, I had a massive nervous breakdown near Louisville. I recovered for the flight home. It was not a fun flight...and all flights after weren't fun anymore.

At home, I scoured the image archives to ID the 757, remembering the colors. I saw one; my neck hair stood up straight, my blood ran cold. The aircraft was a 757 but technically a Boeing C-32...the paint scheme was identical and the upper fuselage said UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. The US Government owns 4 of them and are occasionally used as Air Force One or Air Force Two. These AC are not required to use ADS-B tracking for security reasons, and I contacted a friend who's a jet pilot...

He researched all the NOTAMS for that time frame, found it: in that week, there were several US Government VIP flights scheduled. One flight was scheduled for that area but much of the other info about it was restricted for security reasons. I wasn't nuts.

United denied it all, despite the fact I told them they were 100% in the right. And they were.

Looking back, my biggest fear was my body, dead as it was, falling 7 miles to Earth. After 50 years, my passion for flying died.
 
Caves where you have to crawl on your stomach through tight passages. Nope. Nope. Nope. That fear of getting stuck, underground, in the dark, no forward, no backward, OMG!

Yeah that's a good one. Some people here are doing something they call caving. I call it asking for problems. I'm not doing any caving.
 
I have been living alone for a while and sometimes late in the evening, after a long day, when it's dark outside and the cats are sleeping so it's just me puttering around the house, I'm a little afraid I'll always be alone. :fearscream: It sneaks up on me sometimes, a fear of being alone.
I don’t think you have to worry about that, my friend. You seem like a very sweet guy to me, kind and levelheaded. Women like guys like you.
 
Saying things that offend.
Behaving in ways that creep people out.
Annoying people in this forum.

Continuing to do these things; dimly aware something isn't right at the time.
 
Oh, got another one: masking.

Oh...and passive-agressive idiots. Ya got a gripe? Say it. PA is for immature people.
 
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