What did I accomplish?

[Tony Ramirez]

Really, approaching my 6-year anniversary next month, I achieved nothing. Still single, unemployment, not traveling, stuck in NYC, losing friends. Getting more angry, broke and bitter.

 

[Rodafina]

6-year anniversary

6th anniversary of what?

 

[Masked Man]

6th anniversary of what?

Presumably of joining this site.

I mean Tony ... joining an online forum is not usually the first steps to achieving something like a job, travel, etc. It's just a means of sharing experiences with others on the forum.

This sounds like something you should discuss with your therapist. You spend way too much time being angry.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

You spend way too much time being angry.

Glad I have enough karma now on Reddit posting more on there, feeling more accepting on the subs I have been on.

But I have friends here I DM so I stick around.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

My language has gotten foul suddenly last year just like it is now back when I was 18 20s dammit I wonder why

 

[Masked Man]

My language has gotten foul suddenly last year just like it is now back when I was 18 20s dammit I wonder why

You choose your own behavior. You're the only one who knows why you do this.

 

[Mary Terry]

Hopefully, you have gained some insight into yourself and why you are the way you are. You also finally got a therapist which is a good thing.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

I'm hated everywhere

 

[Masked Man]

I'm hated everywhere

If you broke forum rules, then being banned is the consequences of that action.

That's not being "hated." That is the result of breaking rules.

You need to learn to behave and express yourself in such a way that is not offensive or harmful to others.

 

[Masked Man]

I don't need to hear your crap, it was a goddamn forever alone sub to talk to people about women treating us like crap. I broke no rules. Now I am back listening to your gaslighting crap. I have no goddamn community to say anything. Even IRL when women treated me like crap, and I am on the verge of walking in traffic I am the victim.

Actually it sounds like you DO need to hear my crap. If you were banned you most certainly broke the forum rules. No one gets banned for no reason.

You HAVE TO LEARN TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS.

Go out and take a walk and get some air. Walk it off.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

Go out and take a walk and get some air. Walk it off.

Ironically I actually joined a walking club on Meetup yesterday that actually walks around the city and talks since that's what I do is walk. But I am nervous as hell going there today.

 

[NB79]

You get banned on reddit for just having normal opinions though. You just have to not align with their views, even if you are not hostile in any way, they ban you easily.

 

[Masked Man]

Ironically I actually joined a walking club on Meetup yesterday that actually walks around the city and talks since that's what I do is walk. But I am nervous as hell going there today.

Just go. Get out of your head and go get some fresh air. It doesn't even have to be about meeting other people, it's just going for a walk.

 

[Mary Terry]

I don't need to hear your crap, it was a goddamn forever alone sub to talk to people about women treating us like crap. I broke no rules. Now I am back listening to your gaslighting crap. I have no goddamn community to say anything. Even IRL when women treated me like crap, and I am on the verge of walking in traffic I am the victim.

Call your therapist. You need a mental tune-up. Or, as one of my friends says, your crazy is showing and you need to tuck that back in.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

You get banned on reddit for just having normal opinions though. You just have to not align with their views, even if you are not hostile in any way, they ban you easily.

I agree. Back to using Reddit for tech support again. That means even just following tech support subs.

 

[Misty Avich]

I know how Tony feels though. Yes I know we both have different life circumstances, but we still have the same social desires but our ASD just denies us the opportunities even though we don't want it to.

Being reminded that I have a very minimal social circle does make me want to puke, even though I try to broaden my social circle but often just end up being rejected or excluded. And when I get reminded of my sister's social life (present and past) compared to mine, I go into self-loathing mode. I mean, making friends AIN'T THAT HARD, I'm not that socially inept, plenty of female Aspies have friends they hang out with (even awkward teenage Aspies), yet judging by my lack of social life (especially as a teenager) anyone would think I'm severely non-verbally autistic or something.

It makes me so damn angry. Not with other people but with myself, my brain, and my genes for giving me this. I hate, hate, HATE it. Sorry if that offends people but I do hate ASD and I'm sure Tony does too because it's just a huge inconvenience in our (me and Tony) lives that we could do without.