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What made you UNHAPPY today?

Went to check out our new library (the old one got flooded so they moved to a new, larger location) to be greeted by loud music as soon as I got through the door - over the speakers, not from someone's phone or something - from the coffee shop they have in there. Libraries are supposed to be quiet.
 
These two ladies were complaining loudly over and over. l had a huge disconnect when they both were speaking to me then l realised why l freaked out- they had so much botox pumped into their face there was no expression, so it was the real Stepford Wives movie, except l was waiting for their heads to explode like sci-fi movie. It felt incredibly weird to be looking at them. That made me feel so weird, like if l was more on the spectrum this is how people would appear to me.
 
Job prospects.
Stranger staring.
Have to make appointments for medical check up.
 
Worrying about my mental and physical health. Which of course is bad for my mental and physical health, but I just can't help it.
 
I was just reminded how much people hate women. I hate myself because I'm a woman.

When I was on WP I was constantly hearing how evil feminism is and that it will be responsible for the end of civilization as we know it. But then I read a post saying Toy Story 4 is Trash, where they went on how Bo Peep is a feminist who treats Woody badly by saying he's "just an accessory". I know that was a reference to Ken in Toy Story 3, where the other toys that were on Lotsahuggin's side meant that Ken is just an accessory to Barbie, so Woody is the "accessory" to Bo Peep, but I didn't see the misandry in it. I tend to see Disney/Pixar movies for what they're supposed to be instead of all the ridiculous nonsense other adults claim is in them, like when they said The Lion King was racist and or Belle had Stockholm Syndrome. I had recently seen the movie and enjoyed it but the negativity made me miserable and upset.
And then, just before Christmas someone else posted "JK Rowling is a Disgusting TERF!", I didn't even know what a terf was until I looked it up. And then I completely lost it, told WP they were nothing but a bunch of incels, said goodbye forever, and I haven't been on it since except for some lurking without being signed in.

People are just so threatened by women doing anything that men do. I feel like garbage knowing there are people who will hate me just because I stood up for my rights. Not for something stupid and *really* misandrist, such as "guys are not real men unless they pay for a date", but for something that men have always been allowed to do. I'm not going around saying women should legally be allowed to rape men as long as it's done on the woman's property or that men shouldn't be allowed to leave the house without a female escort, or that men should stay in the kitchen an make me a sandwich. Speaking of which, why is it okay for women to be preparing food in a household kitchen but if she's a chef working in a high-quality restaurant kitchen people don't think she's as capable as a man who does the same thing?

I've been holding this in for so long. I just did not know how to tell people how much it hurts inside. At least not in a way that won't make them offended or judgemental.
 
GrownupGirl said:
I was just reminded how much people hate women. I hate myself because I'm a woman.

When I was on WP I was constantly hearing how evil feminism is and that it will be responsible for the end of civilization as we know it. But then I read a post saying Toy Story 4 is Trash, where they went on how Bo Peep is a feminist who treats Woody badly by saying he's "just an accessory". I know that was a reference to Ken in Toy Story 3, where the other toys that were on Lotsahuggin's side meant that Ken is just an accessory to Barbie, so Woody is the "accessory" to Bo Peep, but I didn't see the misandry in it. I tend to see Disney/Pixar movies for what they're supposed to be instead of all the ridiculous nonsense other adults claim is in them, like when they said The Lion King was racist and or Belle had Stockholm Syndrome. I had recently seen the movie and enjoyed it but the negativity made me miserable and upset.
And then, just before Christmas someone else posted "JK Rowling is a Disgusting TERF!", I didn't even know what a terf was until I looked it up. And then I completely lost it, told WP they were nothing but a bunch of incels, said goodbye forever, and I haven't been on it since except for some lurking without being signed in.

People are just so threatened by women doing anything that men do. I feel like garbage knowing there are people who will hate me just because I stood up for my rights. Not for something stupid and *really* misandrist, such as "guys are not real men unless they pay for a date", but for something that men have always been allowed to do. I'm not going around saying women should legally be allowed to rape men as long as it's done on the woman's property or that men shouldn't be allowed to leave the house without a female escort, or that men should stay in the kitchen an make me a sandwich. Speaking of which, why is it okay for women to be preparing food in a household kitchen but if she's a chef working in a high-quality restaurant kitchen people don't think she's as capable as a man who does the same thing?

I've been holding this in for so long. I just did not know how to tell people how much it hurts inside. At least not in a way that won't make them offended or judgemental.
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Okay l came here to gripe about a female and l just finished reading your well written concerns. If you have a chance, pick up the book: Nasty Woman / Feminism, resistance and revolution in Trump's America. It's a collection of essays written by many types of woman re: your post. What's interesting is 53% white woman voted for Trump and 94% black woman voted for Hillary. Who knew that fact?

Anyways, l caught a woman in a lie tonite at work trying to accuse me of something l didn't do, but l nicely called her out on it, l think l was more sad then mad about it. Right now there is less to go around , and as a female l do feel persecuted by males and females when l do well at my job. I had a young female get angry at one job because people listened to me over her. My current position, some females dislike me because l don't fall into cliques. No matter what l do, it's always a upward climb for us, (being female part). I use to think l should have been born a man.
 
Aspychata said:
Okay l came here to gripe about a female and l just finished reading your well written concerns. If you have a chance, pick up the book: Nasty Woman / Feminism, resistance and revolution in Trump's America. It's a collection of essays written by many types of woman re: your post. What's interesting is 53% white woman voted for Trump and 94% black woman voted for Hillary. Who knew that fact?

Anyways, l caught a woman in a lie tonite at work trying to accuse me of something l didn't do, but l nicely called her out on it, l think l was more sad then mad about it. Right now there is less to go around , and as a female l do feel persecuted by males and females when l do well at my job. I had a young female get angry at one job because people listened to me over her. My current position, some females dislike me because l don't fall into cliques. No matter what l do, it's always a upward climb for us, (being female part). I use to think l should have been born a man.
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if you’d been born a man you would resemble a defunct (rectal- I say that as there are anuses all over the body it’s just an opening )anus putting it politely, if you want to know the unpolite term look up the old English spelling of anus and add the shape it resembles
 
Doomsday clock.

Getting my period today isn't helping it, either.

Can't bear the thought of dying slowly and horribly of radiation poisoning.

Or my parents dying of it.

Every new year is even worse than the old year.

People have told me for years that I'm too negative, but it's really my depressive realism making me see the world for what it truly is.
 
GrownupGirl said:
Doomsday clock.

Getting my period today isn't helping it, either.

Can't bear the thought of dying slowly and horribly of radiation poisoning.

Or my parents dying of it.

Every new year is even worse than the old year.

People have told me for years that I'm too negative, but it's really my depressive realism making me see the world for what it truly is.
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The world is going to be destroyed and we all die anyway, why not try to have fun while you can? :)
 
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