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What was your first crush. When was it?

My first actual crush was in prep and his name was Bradley.
He had a mullet style hair.

But those were stupid primary crushes.
The first real crush that I consider the real thing was in year 7 in high school.
And his name was Tim.
And it was because he talked to me in year 7.
And he seemed interested when he was talking to me and the popular girls there were getting mad and I liked seeing them mad. I thought I was ugly in year 7.
He had a head of soft blonde hair, big blue eyes and nice lips and I was obsessed.
I was utterly obsessed the whole of high school.
I thought I would change him into a good boy and marry him.
And everyone was like wow I do not know what you see in him
And now I think the same thing, was he even attractive?
Do not remember his face that much, his brother ben who was in yr 12 at the time was not bad and he had a pretty sister.
I kind of liked his brother a bit at first, saw him on school grounds but I was like no...too old.
 
lovely_darlingprettybaby said:
My first actual crush was in prep and his name was Bradley.
He had a mullet style hair.

But those were stupid primary crushes.
The first real crush that I consider the real thing was in year 7 in high school.
And his name was Tim.
And it was because he talked to me in year 7.
And he seemed interested when he was talking to me and the popular girls there were getting mad and I liked seeing them mad. I thought I was ugly in year 7.
He had a head of soft blonde hair, big blue eyes and nice lips and I was obsessed.
I was utterly obsessed the whole of high school.
I thought I would change him into a good boy and marry him.
And everyone was like wow I do not know what you see in him
And now I think the same thing, was he even attractive?
Do not remember his face that much, his brother ben who was in yr 12 at the time was not bad and he had a pretty sister.
I kind of liked his brother a bit at first, saw him on school grounds but I was like no...too old.
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Year 7?
 
Various fictional characters (not sure which one was first) - Looking back about 80% of them were probably neurodivergent in some way.
 
While I know I had interests prior to grade 9 that was/is the first one I can recall that I can actually attach a name to. So age 15. Like I know that in elementary and middle school I was interested in the opposite sex and would often be fascinated by one particular classmate at a time, usually with their hair oddly. But it was in grade nine that I really romantically fell for a girl. She and I never did end up dating but even better than that she became a close life long friend. One I still have 27 years later. In a very odd twist of things I had a short romantic involvement with her twin sister later on in my adult years out of high school and university. She and I don't speak now.
 
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I have tons of crushes on many girls but these girls are obviously not going to date me because I'm ugly and poor
 
l had a crush on a very quiet brown eye boy in 1st grade. He was shy, and had such a sweet smile. And l married a man that had brown eyes. My first marriage proposal was from a guy with brown eyes and so was the second proposal.
 
I am REALLY glad I DIDN'T go out with my first crush, as even though I did nothing bad to her, she ended up doing horrid things to me without me realizing many years later...I forgive her but I have never once spoken to her or got to know her. (Later got to know her son. I had a crush on her from the agebof 13 to 16 and she wasn't at my svhool.but was on the same school bus (The larger of the school busses as we then went on a smaller bus so it took about an hour (With half an hour wait to be collected from school, and we were dropped off with half an hour before school started in the mornings and the distance to school was three and a half to four miles... Yes, I could walk there much quicker BUT I could not walk in the mornings due to being stressed inside which effected my ability to walk).

Anyway... Unknown to me but the young lady happened to marry my first bosses son who was around five years older than I am and they must have got together several years after I left the place I worked?Sadly from what I understand the marriage did not last. Her son was around my youngest brothers age and was a decent young man. My brother worked with him for a while on my neighbours farm. They were in a bit of a predicament and Mum offered to help through speaking to the son but the lady refused which I was relieved, as Mum was often putting me in situations as she has a kind heart (Not that I would refuse to help desparate people in difficult situations).

Anyway! While I was young and silly I did fancy her when she was a young lady but itis a relief for me and her that nothing happened! (I was way too shy to talk).

These days I can't see a lady wanting me and if they did I sort of look at them daft and try and find a man for them who is a better choice. Not that I couldn't fall in love, as that would be a dream, but there are better men out there?




But I am glad
 
I don't know why but as a British kid who is 44 soon. I found celebs who were older attractive and I still like older women. Jennifer Aniston, Catherine Zeta Jones, Miranda Richardson.
Today celeb wise I appreciate her activism, Alyssa Milano, and looks wise I find her so attractive looking.
My dream girl is someone who I met through a music based charity for people with the mental health conditions or/and autism 🙂
 
For some reason it is so easy to get fictional character crushes but hard to find real life ones. I don't know why.
 
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