pelecanus87
Well-Known Member
I think the second part is true and you're right to point that out. But just because this dynamic is not unique to autistic people, doesn't mean this dynamic doesn't have some unique characteristics when it comes to autistic people. For starters, those identities don't have anything to do with making "mistakes" in and of themselves. Autistic thinking is inherently related to the "mistakes" in question.I don't see this as an NT/ND issue.
In my opinion, this is actually a majority/minority issue. Anytime someone of a minority (be it neurotype, race, gender, background, age or any other identifiable trait) and they do something "different" - that different will be default be attributed to that minority status.
Furthermore, if people don't know you are autistic, but just believe something is "off" about you, they're not likely to give you the benefit of the doubt because there is no social pressure to do so. Whereas with those other identities, there is social pressure to treat them fair.