It tears at my heart, to see another family go thru this. Yes you could have conversation, with you and kid's, and a necessity if he is going to stay in their life, in some form. You mentioned that if it was up to you, you'd be filing for divorce If you feel that strongly about it, dont make a decision based around fear. Its no way to live a life and it sounds like youve given up enough already. As you can see from the multitude of posts, everyone here has good advice to share, to help you through this
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