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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single Aspie with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    None of the women that know me have animosity against me. It was proving today when one said hi and talked to. It's all in my head. It's my RSD.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sometimes l come across sharp, not nice because l am dealing with some major issues. l don't dislike the person l am talking to, l just have very little energy, and can't be cute- nice.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    @Tony Ramirez
    Maybe you can save this comment somewhere or write it down so that you can remember it when your mind is hyper focused on rejection.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Great idea @Rodafina , sometimes we forget how far we have come.
    Tony Ramirez
    Dispute my earlier meltdown due to my mother insulting me in the phone when I called her earlier, my friends from church still treated me for lunch out to eat. I take them for granted, what my narcissistic parents put me through.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I am so glad that you realize you may be normal, it's just your parents derailed your perception of yourself. Like you should be chastised or belittled for just existing. My parents were excellent at this. But l try my best to be respectful to others unless they loose that privilege.
    oregano
    oregano
    I try to treat others with respect, especially if they are in jobs that require a lot of negotiations with people who are angry and/or traumatized. I once had a pharmacist who said she liked dealing with me because I was always calm and levelheaded. She tended to get screamed at by customers all day.
    Tony Ramirez
    Therapy or faith doesn't really help. I'm living proof of it.
    Misty Avich
    Misty Avich
    It's best to just do therapy anyway because whenever we vent on here at least we can say we done therapy whenever we're asked the inevitable "have you tried therapy?"
    Tony Ramirez
    Thursday night meetup tried actually went great. It was faith based, where I basically have the most comfortable connections.
    Tony Ramirez
    Now I am on slightly higher meds again. The cycle is getting worse. Really all I want is one particular friend👧that will be there, won't ostracize, stand me up all the time. But no one even here understands, I can never achieve.
    Tony Ramirez
    I don't think I can trust anyone.
    Zain
    Zain
    What do you want to trust people with?
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Definitely have days that l feel that way. You kind of wonder why people let you down, it's a realization.
    Tony Ramirez
    Finally watching "The Dark Knight" what a freaking great movie.
    FayetheAspie
    FayetheAspie
    I've seen trailers and short skits from it, but have never seen the entire movie.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Everyone says it was the best superhero movie ever.
    Rocco
    Rocco
    Have you seen any of the other Christian Bale Batman movies yet?
    Tony Ramirez
    Faking it to join clubs to make friends is the worst advice my parents and people gave me. My mental health is at the verge of a seizure or heart attack soon.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm a worthless piece of garbage to the public that if I pass out, people would just walk over me like dog crap.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I have encountered co-workers who don't like me in many different jobs. Sometimes it's because l am very logical, or my feminine looks get me in trouble, or because people - mostly women, decide to dislike me. l lost my last position because l wouldn't sleep with a board member. But l am not going to internalize this. l will just keep moving ahead , l am not going to take it personally.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    We all deal with others trying to hold us back.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I only made friends in church groups with NTs and only church. Never meet another Aspie in church.

    Online only with other aspies only never IRL.
    Tony Ramirez
    The late David Bowie was right. "“If it flies, it’s death.”". Let my friends risk their lives every month in the sky with no escape except death. It's scary. Sorry my fear is back bad. Bus, train, car, or ship for me.
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    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    The media focuses on disasters because they get clicks. The vast majority of planes take off and land safely every single day that you never hear about because it is not clickable material.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I avoid the news, but it's all over I tried to avoid turn off every news feed, but then it turned on or if you are logged out there it is. I hate news media.
    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    I avoid news too in general but just knowing that, statistically, flying is a safe mode of transportation helps me.
    Tony Ramirez
    Finally have Karma to post in my favorite FA subs on Reddit.
    Zain
    Zain
    Careful about what words you use, lol. Reddit is very anti free speech where you can get banned by a mod for using a word they don't like even though it is apt. They won't bother to look at unban requests.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm doing much better now. Only went out three times this week. Church where I had a great time after with the superbowl game together. Then Tuesday night with another group socializing. More days of rest then one day solo at the gym. Me being positive making my parents argue less.
    Tony Ramirez
    I got to stop saying "Hey" to new people. 99% of the time they ignore me when I do.
    T
    thejuice
    Maybe an open ended question hey how are you?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No when I say that to women force of habit they give me the death stare resting face then walk away.
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