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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Forever Alone Aspie 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I texted that I did not want to live no more and two of my married friends from life group called me and cheered me up.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    She also though I was in my early 30's and was surprised when I told her I was 46.
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    Yikes...I'm sorry your day was so bad.
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    Tony Ramirez
    I cried at life group tonight.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Crying is part of processing emotions. Some people feel better after they cry.

    I hope you felt supported by your group last night.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I did. I normally never cry even when my Grandmother died. Even the two single women who do talk to me and I know for a while we're supportive.
    Tony Ramirez
    Why don't single women like me nevermind even want to talk to me? What is wrong with me? I am so sad and depressed.
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    I'm sorry. Had the same thing in my life, just gave up & lived on. I hope the situation changes!
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Almost every place I go it's men old people and couples anyway.
    Tony Ramirez
    Except for my yoga teacher and my therapist excluding my family I was ignored by everyone else this lonely Halloween.
    BobbiSueEllen
    BobbiSueEllen
    Dang, I'm sorry...there's no Sad reaction here.
    Tony Ramirez
    Losely day at yoga. Stuck up female student ignored me but talked to the teacher only and it was just us in class. Teacher consultant me after class walked with me until she went to the supermarket.
    Tony Ramirez
    Women in relationships tell me I am a nice person.
    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    Well because you're a nice person dude
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks Too add too that.
    Single women don't give me the time of day.
    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    Oh dude... If only I could somehow make you see that you don't need a girlfriend to be happy!

    I meant it in a nice way dude not in an inflammatory way! Not everyone's out to get you, you know?

    Honestly just trying to help you work on you

    I believe in you dude

    Try believing in yourself too
    Tony Ramirez
    I trimmed my beard shaved today not because I care how I look but because whenever I drank something it would get all over my face and my shirt.
    Tony Ramirez
    Today's one of those days where I should have stayed in bed all day. I have nothing but material possessions so I am going to take another nap.
    Tony Ramirez
    My depression is back about not being in a relationship.
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    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    Not asking you to, just giving some advice

    Been down that road dude, I know how it is

    I had a lot of girlfriends and still was depressed, nobody else will save you but you

    Desperation leads to bad decisions
    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    Since I was not happy myself all my relationships failed which led to more depression....

    Believe me I've been there! I know how crushing loneliness can be, but once you find joy with your own company you will no longer hate being alone

    If you want love, love yourself first, inner love attracts outer love
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Never had one girlfriend not a single one. Hell I never even had a girl as a real friend so there. You don't know what I am going through.
    Tony Ramirez
    I did not go to yoga this morning. I was tired and due to a bad instinct yesterday after class I was not in the mood.
    Tony Ramirez
    I don't believe in anything anymore. I heard the f word from a woman in yoga class after class today it's the last straw.
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    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    Well that's on her dude, don't let the outside noise disturb your inner you
    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    Please don't take this personally or as an attack, just sharing a bit of my limited wisdom

    There is a saying I like to say to myself when I find myself focusing a lot on others

    "Not my horse, not my problem"
    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    Meaning that you can only take care of your own horse with food and water, if you start feeding and watering other people's horses your horse will go hungry and thirsty
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