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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Forever Alone Aspie 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    Now that I really think of it. I really have no friends, just many acquaintances.
    AprilR
    AprilR
    I only have one also
    elgat0verde
    elgat0verde
    True friends are hard to come by man, I have no friends at all! But I have me!
    Tony Ramirez
    Lately only grandmother's have been approaching me for conversations.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Do you ever ask the grandmothers for advice in dating? Grandmothers can be very wise people.
    tree
    tree
    Tony Ramirez
    90% of the women I encounter my age or younger are married or have boyfriends.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    So. You can either sulk, or you can learn to be engaging and really attempt a connection with the 10% who are not in a relationship.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I have been doing that. At least having good conversations with them. But I am not you and can't ask them out on a date or anything like that.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Think about it Tony. Those women would probably enjoy getting out with you. One of the hardest things for me was to get over the fear of rejection task women out. How would you feel if one accepted and you had a nice time out with her?
    Tony Ramirez
    I have not written in my journal in over a week. But things are still going on in my life. Been going to yoga. Even went one night. I went to someone's house for dinner. I went to a pumpkin festival in my neighborhood after church yesterday. Just too lazy to write about it.
    Tony Ramirez
    Most of my conversations with woman fizzle out so fast. So annoying. Why do I even bother to even attempt to speak to them?
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Better.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Like anything, keeping a conversation going is a skill you can learn. Do that and you will be on your way to learning to flirt with playful banter. It is OK to bring up earlier topics if the conversation flags, or try to riff off of what the other person is saying. Think about Jazz with its solos interspersed in the harmonies of the song.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    There is one Molly not the other Molly my age I can maintain an conversation with only if it's just me and her talking alone without inturuptions from other people.
    Tony Ramirez
    At the park event I was approached by two men and a couple and we had deep conversations because things like they are men or the woman is taken does not bother me anymore as much as it use too.
    S
    Slime_Punk
    That's so good to hear! I feel like this opens you up to meeting all sorts of new people, and you never know who they could also introduce you to!
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    This is a wonderful realization that you’ve had, Tony. I hope it brings more friendships and connections into your life.
    Tony Ramirez
    I like my new therapist.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    That is wonderful, Tony. I was thinking of you positively when responding to a thread centered around emotional reactivity. I think you are finding that you have agency and will succeed.
    Tony Ramirez
    Asking for any girls number your friends with is hard. I could have done this with two girls this past week but the words would not come out of my mouth.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    I have found that most girls I was friends with were more than glad to exchange contact information, which keeps friendship actually functional. So most will probably want to actually keep in touch. It's helpful when you want to talk about hobbies not many men in your area share (reading, sewing) or about practical stuff.
    tree
    tree
    Would offering your own number/contact information work?
    Instead of asking for the girl's info?
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    I'm with @tree on this one. While doing it, smile, say you enjoy your conversations and want to keep in touch.
    Tony Ramirez
    I learned my lesson again after being ignored all week. I have to approach woman for them to talk to me. I did that today after yoga class after asking a student how class was. She was new and kind. She liked the class and hopes to come again.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    You are learning and putting yourself out there. Keep up the good work!
    Tony Ramirez
    Yoga back in mornings on the weekdays. I will be going back to the gym in the afternoon next week when the weather gets cooler.
    Tony Ramirez
    Past two weeks I randomly ran into this woman who knows me from church I find out lives in my neighborhood. I ran into her today in the park after my yoga class. We chatted for a while but she was mostly studying. She said I hope to see you Sunday?
    Tony Ramirez
    I had trouble talking to woman as usual yesterday. There is this Asian guy who annoys me. He talks to woman and has long 15 to 20 minute conversations with them while I only exchange a few words and the conversations always fizzle out or I keep getting inturrupted. I finally gave up and left.
    tree
    tree
    Are you saying this other fellow was also having a conversation with this same person you wanted to talk to?

    Or what?
    V
    VictorR
    Is there a particular reason why you mentioned this person was "Asian"?
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    You could have described the guy as friendly.
    Tony Ramirez
    Men need to stop wearing flip flops especially with shorts. I mean I like now. It's disgusting.
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    tree
    tree
    Why the heavy judgements on casual warm weather foot gear?
    Nobody is forcing others to follow suit, right?
    So, why not just go with the thought that if it's comfortable and safe for other people
    to wear flip flops (or crocs), it's their choice?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I actually get sick to the stomach when I see men wear them. I get turned on when I see women wear them.
    tree
    tree
    So you like to see women's feet. Find it sexy.
    You know, seeing a man's foot wouldn't turn you gay.
    It doesn't work that way.
    Tony Ramirez
    Went to the doctor. My blood pressure is low because my quack mental doctor put me on a high dosage of blood pressure pill to suppose to control face masks which it does not. My real doctor said to reduce it then to eventually stop talking it.
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