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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single Aspie with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I either keep to myself but when my emotions build up I tend to overshare sometimes to people I know. I am afraid I will lose them because of this.
    tree
    tree
    Have you told those people that?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Sometimes. They said they understand. They say no problem.
    tree
    tree
    But you continue to worry.
    Tony Ramirez
    My normal yoga teacher could sense my bad vibes after class and in general.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    How did they show you that? Did they ask you something or mention it to you?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Think they knew by my mood.
    Tony Ramirez
    The only students at the yoga studio who know me by name are my mother's age. Pathetic.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Not many. But only the old students usually talk to me.
    tree
    tree
    Take a look at what's going on.
    You fault others for not knowing your name, but
    have you taken the time or interest to know anyone
    else's name?
    Yeshuasdaughter
    Yeshuasdaughter
    So what? Who cares? I have oodles of senior friends. They're the best.
    Tony Ramirez
    If I was not around anymore not included my family would I truly be missed by anyone?
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    AdamG
    AdamG
    alright. I'll just put you on ignore. That way, my non-advice above won't bother you.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks.
    AdamG
    AdamG
    In all honesty, if you are this offputting to women, no wonder they "all have boyfriends".
    Tony Ramirez
    There is no such thing as love in first sight at least for me.
    Metalhead
    Metalhead
    Love at first sight is a myth for everybody.
    AdamG
    AdamG
    There really is no thing. Relationships take time and effort, and so does the beginning of it.
    Tony Ramirez
    I am tired of attractive woman giving me mean stares.
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    Judge
    Judge
    They're the ones you don't want to approach under any circumstances. Odds are that those looks aren't personal, but they are intentional. Reminds me of a really attractive woman I once worked with, who always arrived at work with a horrible scowl on her face. She said it was to keep the guys at an arm's length...and apparently it worked well for her.
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    Aryana
    Maybe your interpreting the way these women are looking at you. why you would think they were giving you mean stares? Did you do something that would make them stare at you in that way? Doubtful !!
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    Aryana
    I wouldn't give a mean look even if they did something to offend me. Unless these women think they are better than everyone. Those type of women might , but these are the type of women who are not worth your time.! Stay positive. You will eventually meet that right
    Tony Ramirez
    My bad attitude is back in full force again.
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    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    I understand a cold heart. But, mine has given me trouble. I want to unfreeze it forever… if I can.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Tony, you are letting externalities control your thinking. You need to look inward for validation and be that person you would like to be in a relationship. Have you looked into activities that may be attractive to single women: Bicycling/Outdoors, Cooking lessons, Educational programs?

    I do not know if you are even in the right frame of mind to connect for and maintain a relationship.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    That's so true. Finding a passion and doing it.
    Tony Ramirez
    I hope tomorrow is a better day. This weekend sucked.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    I hope so too, for you. Bad days in the past don’t have to determine tomorrow. Maybe tomorrow will be better.
    Tony Ramirez
    A woman said hi to me at church during the greeting. I said hi back but then walked away because she was next to a guy and what looked like her parents. I sat some place else because I knew it was her husband and I was not in the mood to hear my husband come out of her mouth.
    Tony Ramirez
    Sorry being such a grouch today but I just had such a long lonely day today. I really felt it today. I will try to be more positive since I am not going out no more today.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    What a beautiful cat on your profile. Those eyes.
    tree
    tree
    @Tony Ramirez
    Have you ever considered that these people are sharing
    their experiences not to torment you, but because they
    are happy? And believe that hearing a story about meeting
    might illustrate how relationships may begin?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It feels like torture to me. Because no matter what I do I can't seem to achieve it.
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