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relationships

  1. P

    No idea how my HFA man feels about me (NT)

    I am an NT female who is ‘seeing’ a HFA male. I feel some history is needed, sorry it’s so long... It started as an affair 8 years ago. We first met at 16, and there has always been a spark but neither of us were single. I got married to my long term partner and after a few years there were some...
  2. Aspychata

    Can't say what l truly feel........(tears, crying)

    I can't say my true feelings, because of l don't know why. l get overwhelmed with emotions, then finally l realise why l reacted, then l have to do damage control with people l really care about.
  3. Clueless in Canada

    Empathy and ASD

    Whether or not alexithymia is part of an individual's autism package, I frequently see it stated that one of the many autism traits is "Difficulty understanding others' feelings." I puzzle over this and what it means. I have difficulty reading others' feelings but I can understand them if they...
  4. J

    He thinks I was trying to hurt him...

    So I’m a NT and my HFA guy has been frustrating me lately. Recently, he’s gone through a bit of a regression emotionally. The other night, I went to CVS and picked up some cough medicine for him (upon request) at midnight…and he fell asleep before I got back with the stuff and had me waiting...
  5. Ginseng

    Obtaining greater intimacy in our relationships

    I think this article has some good points. I disagree with them regarding their fidelity beliefs, but other than that I found it helpful. Does anyone else have anything to add about intimacy? I want to focus on being closer to others. I am not in a relationship and probably won’t be this late in...
    • Ginseng
    • Thread
    • friendships honesty intimacy love relationships truth
    • Replies: 10
    • Forum: Off Topic
  6. S

    Younger or older Relationships

    This is a controversial subject somebody older dating someone much younger than you personally I don't see a problem with it I don't see a problem with a 16 year old dating a 21 year old because it ain't much of an age difference I personally don't see anything wrong with an 29 year old...
  7. B8tch3z & Nike Shoes

    WORKING HARD to SURVIVE... HUZZAH!

    Now that I'm out of that shelter, I am scrambling like crazy to get my business back into full swing again, so I don't have to go back into ANOTHER shelter. I can't seem to be very productive in a herded community living environment. Right now, I am QUITE happy in a friendly, cheap hotel...
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    • Blog entry
    • 4 min read
    • daily life friendships looking for love relationships survival the struggle is real trauma recovery work
    • Category: Day to Day Life
  8. aspieandconfused_87

    No longer want to talk to a girl at work that I had a crush on...

    Hello All, So there's this girl at work I was crushing on pretty hard, shes pretty, nice to talk to, actually seemed interested in what I had to say, and would even come to me and talk to me out of her own will, and I felt a connection with her, we have chatted off an on here and there. I...
  9. aspieandconfused_87

    So hard to find people to connect with...

    Hello, My name is Brent, I am new to the forum, I am originally from Texas and have been living in Northern California for over 6 years now, so I live in Silicon Valley (yes the place around the show was based) and all these tech giant, the dating scene here is terrible, bad male to female...
  10. Joshua the Writer

    Is it Normal That I Make Friends With Girls Easier Than I do Other Guys?

    For some reason, and I don't know why, I make friends with girls in my age range 14-18, than I do with guys. I have only 6 male friends, 2 of which talked to my older brother a lot before he started to become busier with school and getting his own apartment, and 1 of which I have been best...
  11. F

    AS ex-boyfriend wants to talk

    Follow-up to this thread thanks especially to @Judge, @Tom, @MrSpock, and @AloneNotLonely for their responses. My ex-boyfriend and I last spoke in April. In the conversation, he expressed doubts about our relationship. I was hurt and I responded by saying that I didn't know what else there was...
  12. J

    Boyfriend with Aspergers just broke up with me...

    Hello! My boyfriend, who I have been on and off with for two years, broke up with me last night. Or well, he broke up with me because he could tell I wasn't happy with him. I just feel so horrible... I have borderline personality disorder, albeit an extremely mild version. Basically you could...
  13. H

    I think my boyfriend has Aspergers, help?

    Hey guys! :) So, I have been dating my boyfriend, he’s 21 and so am I, on and off for two years now. He’s always been a little bit more quiet and hard to reach, and we had mutual friends and I fell in love with his humor and intelligence. We have had our ups and downs, mostly because I have...
  14. Sabrina

    Younger male partners

    All the boyfriends that I’ve had (and ex husband), have been younger than me (six months, a year, two years, three years, three years). I’m curious to know if there are other female aspies like me. I used to think that it was because I looked younger, but maybe I’m emotionally younger too (an...
    • Sabrina
    • Thread
    • asperger dating asperger’s aspies female men relationships women
    • Replies: 10
    • Forum: Off Topic
  15. N

    Dating advice...

    I've been dating my 20 year old aspie bf for almost 4 months (i'm 23 but not on the spectrum). I can definitely say he is the most genuine, loving, honest, and patient man I have ever been with. Our relationship is very mature (communication-wise), and I honestly dont think I could've found...
  16. Heather752

    Are my autistic boyfriend and I hopeless?

    Hi everyone, I'm new to the site, so please bear with me. I'm a NT with an aspie boyfriend of 8 months. Recently we've been having a lot of problems. It is important to note that he has not told me directly that he is on the spectrum yet. He has told me he has a communication disorder...
  17. D

    Friendships - usual insecurities? Looking for some insight.

    Hello everyone! Ever since I discovered I might be aspie I've been really pondering on my past social relationships. It's always been tricky - as a child I had a few play friends, but usually I would play by myself and didn't get along easily with more commanding girls. In middle school, I had a...
  18. DesertRose

    Friends in primary school

    When you were first starting school, did you choose people you wanted to be friends with, or attempt to be, that met certain criteria? For instance, I would only seek out those who had been to my home, or knew our family. I also seemed to be drawn to those who appeared to be friendless. It was...
  19. D

    Insecure and a bit paranoid about SO when anxious?

    Hello! I've been in a relationship for almost 5 years with a very sensitive and special person, who's suffering their own deal of mental issues and accepts me for who I am. However, our relationship has been through a lot of hardships and we've developed some not-too-great dynamics. Mostly...
  20. J

    Disassociation of mind from body.

    23 year old and Asperger... Ok so I am really into reading and when I was 12 I came across historical romance that had, not explicit but detailed sex scenes. So those types of books became one of my main reading categories changing from historical to more BDSM as I got older. Now, fast forward...
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