thats pretty much it
Soooo.....you hate that women are so shallow and are only interested in men who have money, status, etc etc
and yet you yourself are only interested in something shallow...a woman's looks, do you not see how hypocritical that is?
It sounds to me like you've been trying to get someone beyond your level. It's sad but true that there are varying levels in the dating world, attractive men and women usually only date someone who is as equally attractive as themselves...the shallow ones anyway. It's not often you'll get some 'hot' model type dating someone who would be considered by society as unattractive...that kind of thing usually only happens in movies. People who are not shallow like that don't really care about looks, sure there has to be some basic physical attraction but it's the person's personality that makes them 'hot'.
If your not trolling, then it would seem that your standards are far too high, you won't consider dating any girl who isn't 'hot' why not?. Lets use some examples again you have Girl A she is 'hot' she could be a model an actress, every man she walks past stops and stares, she has an incredible body...BUT she is selfish, arrogant, complains all the time and has absolutely nothing in common with you. Then there is Girl B she's a bit plain, a little chubby but is soooo funny, is a generous kind caring person who loves the same things you do. Which one would you want as a girlfriend?