Sometimes I think I might *be* an extraterrestrial. I just know my Earth parents found me in the woods next to the smouldering spaceship that crash-landed, and they're hiding the spaceship somewhere.
On the other hand, I think my big brother might have been switched with a space alien when he was around 30 years old. That's why he stopped being obnoxious and annoying to me, and became a kind and caring brother and we get along so well whenever we're together.
In regards to your brother, that makes me think of my own siblings - honestly, I think it's less to do with aliens swapping places with them and more about them getting a dose of common sense and maturity via a metaphorical sledgehammer blow to the head.
As for you getting sent here from another planet, that just makes me think of shows like
Superman and
Dragon Ball - both of which had the protagonist's parents sending their offspring away to escape their world's inevitable destruction in one way or another:
Superman the Animated Series - Kal-El sent to Earth
Dragon Ball Super: Broly - Bardock and Gine send Kakarot (Goku) to Earth
Mind you, looking back at these clips and going off what you said about feeling like an alien, what if (in a fictional scenario) everybody on the Autistic spectrum was carrying some kind of organic supercomputer in their genetic code (hidden inside DNA that is generally regarded as 'junk'), with said supercomputer working out the calculations needed to save our original 'homeworld' in the past.
It'd be a bit like in the 50th Anniversary
Doctor Who episode when the War Doctor (at the time trapped in a room with two of his future selves, the 10th and 11th) inputs a 'subroutine' into his screwdriver that in time would allow the screwdriver of one of his future selves to disintegrate the locked door of the room they're in and allow them to escape.
The Doctors (this time, all 13) later use the same tactic to save their homeworld of Gallifrey from been destroyed by the Dalek Empire on the Last Day of the Time War - safely moving it into a parallel, pocket universe.
If, in this hypothetical scenario, we were working towards that 'long game' goal of eventually restoring our homeworld this way, I could see it happening - even if it is very 'out there':