I am curious why persons drink, too, so if anyone can explain the reasons I would like to hear it. Is it a taste thing, from social pressure, cool in their mind, or does it make them feel better, like reducing their anxiety, or to make them feel less? I am fine with many drinking, as it is their life and as it is legal over a certain age. Most likely are responsible with alcohol. It is the other many ones who misuse alcohol and then it harms others that I have a problem with.
I've never felt social pressure to drink. I mean, I did spend 8 years as an adult not having a single drop of alcohol by choice, so there certainly was a fair amount of pressure that people tried to impose on me (and during the first few of those 8 years, I was in arts & entertainment, so you better believe people drank around me), but it didn't affect me. Or rather, I didn't let it affect me. I'm glad to have gone through that phase, I know I can resist the urge. People do drink heavily on one side of my family, so I had to test myself. Plus, I was worried that my tolerance to the thing was way too high for my frame, and that wasn't too good a thing, I feel it makes me more prone to drink too much.
That being said: I like the taste of some spirits and specific wines. I don't go out of my way to get to like something I dislike, I'm fine with not liking some.
And I like to occasionally have a drink, always in good company, always in a place I like. I enjoy the fact that for maybe an hour or two, I loosen up a bit, my anxiety is not as high, and my need for control over every little thing doesn't control me. So I'll have maybe one night a month where I have a few drinks, and that's it. It's been better for me than any medication for anxiety I've ever been given, in that I've never felt a rebound, or withdrawal, or anything. And it doesn't leave me as dazed & confused either (I mean, I might get tipsy after enough drinks, but it's nothing like needing several pills to find the courage to walk to work, only to be too impaired and brain fogged to be able to do anything).
Sometimes, work functions called for some drinking (OK, to which I happily obliged because they were always things I could never afford, and I'm cheap like that, lol), but that was fairly rare.