I connect with socially awkward girl's.

[Tony Ramirez]

Really the ones who are socially awkward and like to dye their hair and/or stuff and just weird is funny cuz they like many of the same things I like I just like connect with them, I never thought I would, but I just do is that strange.

And to be brutally honest I actually like them better, and I find them more attractive but in a Platonic friendly way.

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

do you think your social life has improved lately Tony? or just social connections have improved? hopefully you are still doing Therapy.

 

[lunarious]

Amazing ... good ... good job

Because good people attract good people. Bad people i.e. Impatient people attract eachother.

It has to do with experience. It has to do with patience.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

do you think your social life has improved lately Tony? or just social connections have improved? hopefully you are still doing Therapy.

Yes, since I left place that don't, nothing.
The saying "doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results" is true.

 

[Neonatal RRT]

Really the ones who are socially awkward and like to dye their hair and/or stuff and just weird is funny cuz they like many of the same things I like I just like connect with them, I never thought I would, but I just do is that strange.

And to be brutally honest I actually like them better, and I find them more attractive but in a Platonic friendly way.

Neurodivergence attracting neurodivergence. It is a "thing".

 

[Aspychata]

Maybe we connect with those that we are similar with. Socially awkward happens more than we realize. Just being confident is a big step. To trust your judgment, not let others affect your thinking.

 

[Dagan]

It is definitely a completely different world of life and emotions when both people can acknowledge, admit and feel comfortable making mistakes, rather than instant fear, instant feelings of rejection or instantly wanting to collapse into yourself and/or hide away.

I'll keep saying it - everything that makes us our best selves is when we have trust and comfort.

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

Yes, since I left place that don't, nothing.
The saying "doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results" is true.

well despite your social improvements lately, it won't surprise me if your dating life still remains the same

 

[Mary Terry]

well despite your social improvements lately, it won't surprise me if your dating life still remains the same

I'd be astounded if you said anything other that ^ to Tony.

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

I'd be astounded if you said anything other that ^ to Tony.

well i don't think Tony cares about that anymore at this point

 

[Mary Terry]

well i don't think Tony cares about that anymore at this point

But you cannot suppress your need to say it. Over and over and over again. Stuck in a loop and a rut. Angry about it. Unable to move beyond it.

 

[velociraptor]

it won't surprise me if your dating life still remains the same

That was unkind. Tony has been working hard, has had some successes, and deserves to have them acknowledged and celebrated. To @Tony Ramirez I married a socially awkward girl almost a quarter century ago. We've had some fun adventures and a wonderful daughter together. Best decision of my life.

 

[Kayla55]

I'm glad you've finally cracked the nut, and understood how system represents life differently and knowing difference.

I'm personally still at odds with president Macron who shows us his secretary who isn't feminist and represents real woman. But then he uses money to obtain a blond trophy wife, this isn't love (crack nut) this isn't real this is symbiotic relationships, somewhat termed shallow.
If seek companion in a woman accepting her looks, quirks and less perfect smile you will probably be happier in the long run, with genuine person.

 

[Gerald Wilgus]

Great going, Tony. When I met the woman who is now my spouse I was attracted to her because she is basically shy and introverted like me. And since then, I have been seeing how the shy women certainly are more accepting and enjoy guys who are different. As you start out with a platonic friendship, I hope that you will encounter just how safe with them women like that will make you feel. When that happened with me, I went way out of my comfort zone to express my interest in her, and while my mind panicked, thinking that I ruined our friendship, she kindly quelled my anxiety and our deeper relationship began. Friendship, acceptance, kindness that develops into love, is something I hope you experience

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

That was unkind. Tony has been working hard, has had some successes, and deserves to have them acknowledged and celebrated. To @Tony Ramirez I married a socially awkward girl almost a quarter century ago. We've had some fun adventures and a wonderful daughter together. Best decision of my life.

i know i'm in good company for this, but socially-awkward/socially inept women typically end up in relationships a lot more than socially awkward/socially-inept men do.

Yes well i said that because, Tony has admitted several times in which he feels he should accept that it will never happen for him. I'm starting to feel that way myself because my last relationship felt like we were just friends instead.

 

[Aspychata]

I think there are many single women who have never been married or in a serious relationship because quite a lot of men are simply looking for something else with as many women as they can meet, as one guy simply said that he wanted to be with as many women as he could until he lost his looks and was forced to get married.