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NT Loneliness. (Heavy sigh)

Grumpy Cat

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It's me, Grumpy Cat. Today I'm just feeling different. Usually I come here to get my socialness stuff, but today it just isn't doing it for me. Waldo's here, but you know he only speaks Cat. Julia's at work and can only text, which is ok, but not the same as social interaction. I could call Mary, but that would be overkill with a 5 hour conversation - I need something in the middle. I guess I tuckered out my Aspie friend when I texted him the other day, which is ok cause I know he has a lot going on. Sometimes I wish that there was someone that was here to talk to, have green tea with while watching BBC movies, play video games since I just re-hooked up my PS2, I don't know - just to do stuff. It's really quiet, too. I hate quiet. Especially when it's this quiet cause it's like I'm the only one in the whole world. I hate that. I hardly ever feel this way, but when I do I don't like it. Anyone else get this lonely or just me - Miss NT?
 
I respectfully enter your area and set down two cups of fragrant hot green tea. :teacup::teacup: Being aspie, my clumsy fingertips accidentally also hit the :shortcake::shortcake: button a few times, so those also appear beside the teacups. It's not a verbal kinda day for me, so as I sink into half-lotus next to you, a comfortable, companionable silence ensues.*
* cue dual-knee arthritic "crick" sounds
 
If it would be alright, I would like to very quietly enter the room with my own cup of green tea :teacup: & very quietly settle into a comfy chair nearby, wrap myself up in a soft cotton quilt, & with the lights dimmed low ... would it also be alright if Grumpy & I watched a BBC period movie with the volume very low. Or maybe a Jane Austen movie .... on a low quiet volume. Grumpy cat & Waldo would not be alone ... after a stressful day for GC, & you Warmheart, would hardly know I was there. Peaceful relaxation. (Except for my quiet smile when I thought of the foot meatloaf. The footloaf.)
 
I edge into the room carefully and quietly, mindful that I too have had a bad day here and feeling that I want some warmth. My fur people are with me but they're both having baths. I am wondering if it will take a double-intense catnip-chamomile tea to help me settle down. I'm not very chatty but I can offer these for lonely hearts :tulip::tulip::tulip::tulip::tulip::tulip::rose::rose::rose::rose::cherryblossom::cherryblossom::cherryblossom:

I do love your new avatar, also. And screw the tea, I'm bringing something warmer :sake::sake::sake:
 
I just muted the BBC movie cause I'm really in the mood for a lot of small talk. Either of you want to be my small talk buddy? I'll even talk about the foot meatloaf recipe if you want. Any guys want to show up and play some video games? Or board games too! What's a good way to spike green tea?
 
... & I pass a small but thoughtful gift to A4H as a quiet apology ... because I feel terribly, & sometimes I should just shut up & mind my own business & stay out of it (I just want to see people succeed & be happy) ,,,. & then Grumpy & I can quietly sneak off to another room where we will play a board game & chat. And all is well in the world again. :cherryblossom::cherryblossom::cherryblossom:
 
GC send me a PM & I will chat a bit with you .. or meet you @ the game thread .... I am very tired & about to drop .... :) It's also late .... & WH & A4H are nearly dozing here & I don't want to disturb them .. they look so comfy. (Shhhh, how was your test? Did you survive? At least it's over. Yay! & I too noticed your switch to St. Patty's Day! :fourleaf: Very cute! How is your Mom feeling?)
 
You've also dozed off .... unless you're exercising?? ( :) Simmons .... from the game thread?!) Good night dear Grumpy. I hope you're not feeling lonely or bored anymore .... sleep well. I hope your test did go well today. Unless I mixed up the days, which is a possibility. Good night dear lady!
 
You've also dozed off .... unless you're exercising?? ( :) Simmons .... from the game thread?!) Good night dear Grumpy. I hope you're not feeling lonely or bored anymore .... sleep well. I hope your test did go well today. Unless I mixed up the days, which is a possibility. Good night dear lady!

I was busy doing my facial. I just got some new philosophy facial stuff from QVC, of course, and also to put my jammies on. And I have to floss and brush my teeth. I heard Warmheart snoring.

Did you and A4H have a tiff?

I think I did ok on the test, but I'm never really sure. And Ma's doing much better. Her platelets are low but no bleeding now Thank You Jesus! I'm starting to get used to my new job better too. What's up with you?
 
I respectfully enter your area and set down two cups of fragrant hot green tea. :teacup::teacup: Being aspie, my clumsy fingertips accidentally also hit the :shortcake::shortcake: button a few times, so those also appear beside the teacups. It's not a verbal kinda day for me, so as I sink into half-lotus next to you, a comfortable, companionable silence ensues.*
* cue dual-knee arthritic "crick" sounds

If it would be alright, I would like to very quietly enter the room with my own cup of green tea :teacup: & very quietly settle into a comfy chair nearby, wrap myself up in a soft cotton quilt, & with the lights dimmed low ... would it also be alright if Grumpy & I watched a BBC period movie with the volume very low. Or maybe a Jane Austen movie .... on a low quiet volume. Grumpy cat & Waldo would not be alone ... after a stressful day for GC, & you Warmheart, would hardly know I was there. Peaceful relaxation. (Except for my quiet smile when I thought of the foot meatloaf. The footloaf.)

I edge into the room carefully and quietly, mindful that I too have had a bad day here and feeling that I want some warmth. My fur people are with me but they're both having baths. I am wondering if it will take a double-intense catnip-chamomile tea to help me settle down. I'm not very chatty but I can offer these for lonely hearts :tulip::tulip::tulip::tulip::tulip::tulip::rose::rose::rose::rose::cherryblossom::cherryblossom::cherryblossom:

I do love your new avatar, also. And screw the tea, I'm bringing something warmer :sake::sake::sake:

I just wanted to thank you all for coming over to see me, but all of you fell asleep and I was hungry so I ordered out for a pizza while y'all were sleepin' and I ate it. Too bad! So when do you guys want to come over again? :D I'm starting to feel those pangs of lonelines. :p
 
Ooo did someone say milk? I luuurve milk..
Vodka goes ok in green tea.. nice in relaxed company :)

Hey, Spiller. I'll have to invite you too for my next "sleepover". Warmheart and A4H came over, but took me literally and actually slept. Boo. I'll have to call it my next "all nighter". :p
 
Hey, Spiller. I'll have to invite you too for my next "sleepover". Warmheart and A4H came over, but took me literally and actually slept. Boo. I'll have to call it my next "all nighter". :p

Can't wait Hun, I could do with a little loneliness alleviation myself.. I'll bring green tea and vodka for you to try :D
 

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