I am curious why do you life with such a person?
Money/age/health
When left without any family, I needed a place to live.
I consulted my therapist, social workers, lawyers and placement consultants.
No one could find a place for me to live, not even a foster or group home, for the amount of
SSI and Soc. Sec I receive from my disabilities.
The system will put you in a nursing home because medicaid will pay for that.
The worst they can find and you must go to the one they choose. Could be anywhere in the state.
If you are disabled and can't be located in section 8 housing because you're deemed unable to live
alone, then you become a ward of the state.
So I knew this man and he has plenty of money, a large house he agreed to rent part of it to me
at a price I could afford because he wanted a companion, platonic, that could help him with
everyday chores. A win, win for him. Extra money and help around the house.
I thought it would work out OK until I moved in and learned the type of person he was.
So I put up with it.
I could maybe find someone else to house share with, but, not knowing anyone personally
who knows what they might be like?
He's elderly and in poor health now so he is cooling it a bit with the remarks.
Still happens though.
His health is getting worse and he's getting the house ready to sell and move to
a 50 + seniour living community. Apartments w/a lot of ammenities.
Maybe there will at least be more freedom there and people to meet. See how it works out.