Grumpy Cat
Well-Known Member
Typing to vent...
It's Easter Saturday night here in Australia. The most important, biggest Catholic Mass of the year. Yes, more important than Christmas. The Resurrection of Christ.
My wife is a good Catholic and she sings in the local Churches choir.
She now and again harasses me to go, but I'm not interested and she knows that. But now and again I go for her. I don't go for Jesus, I go for my wife.
And she pushes our kids to go to. Sometimes she gets me to push them to go. An irreligious guy, pushing his kids to go to church. They really aren't interested either. They do it for her.
So, tonight. She goes off to the big Easter Saturday mass alone, and then half an hour later txts me asking us to come up. So we do. Put on our shoes and drive on up. Find a corner in the crowded, darkened, incense filled church. She's up the front singing. No hope of her seeing us. We have come for her, and she won't even know it.
After an hour... it's a marathon 3 hour service on Easter Saturday... the lights come up, and new members to the Church are announced. Adults who are going to get Baptised.
And amongst them is John. John is a fellow irreligious husband who tolerated and accepted his wife's Churchy ways. He'd also come along to church for her. Because he loves his wife. And she can be a bit scary about her faith sometimes too. She'd talk angrily about how he lacked Faith. And I know that he has been coerced into this. He is getting Baptised for her, and for acceptance by her church friends. That is the point where my blood starts to boil. And I say to my kids "That's enough, lets go home". And we all walk out.
So that's it. I am not push my kids to church for the sake of my wife anymore. I am not going to be part of coercing them into joining the Cult. I am not going to push them into pretending to be part of something just for image, just for my wife's image.
The Orphan Masters Son. North Korea. The Lies we profess to believe so that we fit into Society. Or keeping true to what is inside.
Sorry. I know my rant might offend some people. If so, call me a fool and move on.
But I'm annoyed.
You should only get baptized and go to church if YOU want to do it. It can't be forced - it has to come from the heart and soul.