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Thank you Obviously not everyone has to agree with each other but it’s nice to know I am validated here Sometimes I feel like I might not know what I’m talking about. But I try!Your opinion is as valid as any other one of us including mine.
I have some ideas using statistics, interested in other definitions. Please comment, I will elaborate on my ideas later. One thing I know it is not is raw intelligence.as measured by IQ, covers many fields.
I somewhat disagree that all child prodigies are destined to become unhappy and having meltdowns. My sister was considered to be a genius as a kid and while she didn’t skip any grades, she was still a really talented piano player and took loads of advanced classes in high school and got a perfect SAT score and she turned out just fine. She also had to deal with me at times and my outbursts from being undiagnosed with Asperger’s and she never took out any anger or frustration on me. Our dad did brag about her accomplishments and even was proud that she got accepted into Harvard and yet she didn’t let it affect her head or ego. She could be considered to be a prodigy because my dad said that she started talking right when she turned one and shortly after he found out with our mom that she was able to make out letters and read them out loud by the time she was two and neither one of them were teaching her how to read. My sister was playing Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata when she was in sixth grade which isn’t an easy piece to play at that age. Our dad never pushed her hard to get good grades but he did make sure that we kept up with school. So I don’t think all child geniuses are destined to have some sort of meltdown and become failures.The peers of child prodigies catch up with them in the late teen years and usually exceed their accomplishments. Darling little Johnny with his pushy bragging parents and cute little Sally with her backstage mother and father are in for a rude awakening and probably total meltdown when all the other kids are just as good as they are. I've seen it happen.
Parents who push their children and declare them to be "geniuses" or "prodigies" are creating narcissists who will never be as wonderful as their minds perceive and are likely to fail as adults. They can't stand the competition or the fall from grace after years of having their egos stroked by parents or others. I'd rather have happy, well adjusted children of average intelligence than some psycho little piano prodigy or math wizard whose peers will exceed them in a matter of years.
The cotton picker probably wouldn't have worked them out because he'd never have gone to school. He'd work something else out that applied to agriculture. But then, nobody would listen because he was both a slave and nonwhite. Even if he were a free white, probably nobody would listen because he was just a field laborer.Yes! Exactly right.
We can cite lists of "geniuses" and their accomplishments all day but the fact that we know about them does not actually confirm that they are "special people" or even of particular talent or ability. They are famous by circumstance.
A cotton picker might have worked out Einsteins theories before Einstein. But who would they tell? And who would believe them?