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Markness

Markness

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  • Markness
    A part of me wants to pick my story writing back up but because I stopped long ago now, I don’t think anyone is waiting anymore.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    Write for yourself.
    This is why I rarely share my stories; I don't want people lingering round expecting them. Keep on writing!
    Markness
    Can I still prove those who told me “You can’t do this.” wrong?
    cornman
    cornman
    Why would you want to "prove" something to bullies? If they are bullies they wont care whether you succeed or fail and trying to prove something to them just means that they have influence over you. Instead, try to remove this influence by moving past their judgment. You owe these people nothing and they shouldent get to live rent free inside your head, ignore them.
    Markness
    Markness
    I believe that’s what people mean when they talk about the “best revenge.” It would still feel good to have successes instead of failures.
    Markness
    Most terrible advice I’ve been given regarding finding a girlfriend: Wait 5 to 10 years.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    Key word in girlfriend is friend--Insisting that you have to wait some arbitrary amount of time denies the reality that you absolutely can grow along with her--like in a healthy normal friendship.
    You sure do get some weird "hot take" advice from people.
    Markness
    Markness
    This person didn’t even want me to socialize. She essentially told me to just wait.
    Markness
    I am glad the regular supervisors at work aren’t here today or I would be in trouble for having too much toilet time.
    cornman
    have you seen any good anime lately? Also, hope you had a good day today.
    Markness
    Markness
    Orient I’ve been watching as far as new stuff goes. I want to get back to watching One Piece. You? Hope your night is going good.
    cornman
    cornman
    am very tired and extremely bored. been playing fallout3 but still bored. I haven't watched one piece in years, is it worth watching from the beginning (ep1)? I have to watch tv shows in chronological order, that's just how i am.
    Markness
    Markness
    I’ve picked back up Dark Souls recently and I am finally getting to some areas in it that I thought would be impossible to get to! I am the same way regarding shows so yes, definitely watch it from the beginning. I am also re-reading the manga from the beginning. I didn’t start actually watching the anime until near the end of last year.
    Markness
    Should I ever try going to Sans Bar again in case things are different now?
    tree
    tree
    Would one of the things that's different be your ability to refrain from telling yourself negative stories?
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    Give it a shot; I'd say it's probably fine. I've been telling myself not to go back into radio club since some guy asked me to join the "patriot" group somewhere, so I kinda understand how the vibe of a place changes after the politicking starts--
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    --but I mean, you've expressed a desire for social life; only way to improve that is to keep on proving your detractors wrong. (And I think you're way harder on yourself than you need to be)
    Markness
    Why do the people who dislike me don’t want me to commit suicide?
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    Markness
    Markness
    Someone told me not to commit suicide said I needed to support causes he did and didn’t want me to have a girlfriend even though I am depressed for that reason.
    tree
    tree
    Someone is always telling you something.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    People seem to always say negative things. Just ignore them. They are misery vampires.
    Markness
    I feel distraught by many things currently.
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    If they're things outside of your ability to change/control - then you need to shift your focus elsewhere. Easier said than done, I know. But with practice it gets easier.
    cornman
    cornman
    Theres always somthing out there to get distraught over.
    Markness
    I have permanent creative writer’s block now. :(
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    tree
    tree
    "permanent creative writer's block" What a story.
    cornman
    cornman
    funny that's what writers block feels like. you could write a story about a person with writers block so severe that it becomes a kind of degenerative disease in which creative thinking ceases and reaches the point where this person can no longer make decisions. you could call it something brutal like "writers dementia"
    tree
    tree
    S. King would have fun doing that.
    Markness
    I refuse to not socialize just because some people think I shouldn’t. I can’t get better if I don’t.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    At least you are thinking about things. You are free to do as you chose. Don't let other people call the shots. When you die , you leave as one. Start standing up to people, tell them to mind their own biz and not your business.
    Markness
    Heard back from my new friend yesterday!
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    Y'all try to keep up with one another; that sounds neat. What's your friend like?
    Markness
    Markness
    She’s very spunky and geeky.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    She sounds like a fun person. You two keep in touch. See if you can think of something fun & take her somewhere cool.
    Markness
    Will I ever be able to post about having a girlfriend?
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Certainly a possibility if you believe you will succeed. However, at present you seem to believe that you're destined to be alone, which isn't a good vibe to try and find someone to date. So you have to work inwards and then outwards. Rather than hoping like an external factor like a gf will help heal what's inside. It might heal some, but you'll still be the same person with the same fears, worries and anxieties.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Well said Raggamuffin
    cornman
    Whats up dude. Just wanted to say that you are a cool person and have a good day.
    Markness
    Markness
    Thank you. How are you? It’s night over here but I appreciate the concern. Who is that in your avatar? Do you like 90’s anime?
    cornman
    cornman
    Hey dawg, its Leila Marcus from vampire d bloodlust. I haven't read any of the manga that its based off of i just saw the movie and thought it was interesting. Anyways, yeah i like 90s anime, both in its own right and because that's what i have easy access (hint: arr matey!), anything from 60s to 2003.
    cornman
    cornman
    In terms of how im doing, im trying to work on my one of my personal projects. Its the only thing that keeps me sane now a days.
    Markness
    I am not allowed to make amends. Once I do something wrong in the eyes of others, the bridge is burned permanently.
    tree
    tree
    It's not a question of "being allowed." Whether they accept your apology or not is on them. You have no control over their response, and whatever it is, respect them and their wishes and carry on with your life.
    Markness
    I won’t stop expressing my feelings just because some people don’t like me doing so.
    tree
    tree
    It would be great if sometimes the feelings were positive.
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