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Tony Ramirez

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  • Metalhead
    I think it is time you stopped being so hard on yourself. I literally am jealous of your successful weight loss. Dude, that is awesome and I could never fault anybody who succeeds at that.
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    If I want to end my life to get rid of this curse then why do I have to go through so much drama of people telling me that's life's worth living when it's really not.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Lost 90 pounds mostly doing yoga. Teachers and friends are very proud and supportive.
    Metalhead
    Metalhead
    Be proud of that, that is not a minor feat at all. That means you have strength and discipline as a human being.
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    thejuice
    Hang in there Tony you'll feel life is worthwhile again it usually comes.in cycles and my best times usually come after a period of depression!
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    Actually my gpa in college was not 1.0 that was a D but was actually a 0.0 which is a F. Pathetic autistic failure I am.
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    Metalhead
    Metalhead
    You are smarter than what you are giving yourself credit for. Depression makes many people get 0 GPAs when their actual intelligence is much higher, I can tell by reading your posts that you are no idiot. Stop treating yourself as such.
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    thejuice
    I got an ungraded once.. not unexpected as usually I'd get sent out of class but still.. actually I got two ungraded in serious exams
    Metalhead
    Metalhead
    And @thejuice, you are no bloody moron either.
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    Doing yoga classes is actually calming me down more than hanging out with the church groups and peers which has been more stressful.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Alright, that's a big break thru for you. Sometimes church groups are precarious, because you can fall out of favor depending on a multitude of things.
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    thejuice
    They seem nicer
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    I'm on a verge of an nervous breakdown of I have to interact with anymore normal people instead of actual type 1 ASD in real life.
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    People who don't have autism should not give advice to people who have autism. They don't understand anything about what it's like to live with this horrible curse.
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    Wednesday really sucked if you think about it. I had a great yoga class. But then it went downhill fast. I was ostracized at the park. I was kicked out of a life group. There was only a man in yoga class. My mother once again gave me a talking how my friend is now an ex friend and is no good. My life sucks and people will betray you in the end.
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    thejuice
    My insta got hacked and I'm nuclear banned from it now. I don't care enough to fix it lol
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    Tony Ramirez
    I'm 😔.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Actually checking the insta social, Miko has not attended the winter social since November 2023. Just noticed it. It is not in one shot this year, and they do it every month. No shock. He probably could not handle the social sensory overload and the ostracized.
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    I nearly lost my earbuds at the park but I was sitting next to an old couple and when I left they told me I left them. If it was a young woman who I nearly say next to instead glad I didn't, she would have not cared and I would have had to pay $50 to buy a new pair. This was not the first time a old person did this randomly.
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    I can't stand when people speak in a foreign language but swear in English.
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    tree
    What if they speak English and swear in a language you don't speak yourself?
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    Tony Ramirez
    That never happens.
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    tree
    You don't remember ever hearing a person curse in another language?
    I have.
    Not that it matters really.
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    All my friends so far that I told I hate my autism and that I am useless that's four so far said that's not true. I am someone. I am greatly loved,appreciated and special.
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    I'm such a miserable person to be around.
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    tree
    When you're feeling bad, it's hard to remember that
    that you don't always feel this way and you blame yourself
    for how you feel.
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    When my parents pass away I am practically homeless.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    its a miracle or blessing that your parents had you at a very young age, i doubt my parents will still be in my life by the time i reach my 50s
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    Tony Ramirez
    I would be homeless or dead if it was not for my parents because of my curse of autism. An normal would be successful as some of normal friends with worse off backgrounds doing much better.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    i've had this mindset for years now, if your a guy, human male, the word owes you nothing, but its the opposite for women, another way to put it, if your a guy, the world is never gonna come to save you, the reverse is not true though.
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    Why were most people's worst years of their lives were the best years of my lives (junior high), while their best years (college/university), were my worst years of my life?
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    thejuice
    my best years were primary school (although i was put down a year). Things steadily got worse as I got older!
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    Tony Ramirez
    That's equivalent to junior high too I think if I am not mistaken as I think in the UK secondary goes up to 16 years old with 2 years optional.
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    thejuice
    Yes that's right Primary is up to 11. Some schools have lower and upper 6th form. Usually you go on to university. Others don't which means you go to work or go to college after..
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    I thought it was weird that I still like watching classic TV shows, cartoons, kids shows and some anime as a adult until I found out it's quite common for adult autistics to do so. So once again I don't feel weird.
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    AprilR
    AprilR
    I am the same way, and i don't care either way. Life is hard enough as it is and if something brings me joy i will keep doing it
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I love classic older movies.
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    Tony Ramirez
    I love iCarly and I thought it was strange that I liked it as a adult but I thought it was one of Nickelodeon best comedies. Better than the crappy new version made for older audience.
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    Two a company. Three a crowd. That is a lie. At least if I try to hang out a solo friend of the opposite gender. Now with a third person it does not matter the gender male or female. Once I did go out to lunch with two of my female friends. Even was invited in mostly girls group at church and home with other men.
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    thejuice
    That's so cool! With me that saying rings true, as I was usually the odd one out
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    Tony Ramirez
    I was always when I was younger. It finally feels great being accepted, especially by women. I hope the same happens to you.
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    thejuice
    maybe one day!
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