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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Forever Alone Aspie 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    Wednesday really sucked if you think about it. I had a great yoga class. But then it went downhill fast. I was ostracized at the park. I was kicked out of a life group. There was only a man in yoga class. My mother once again gave me a talking how my friend is now an ex friend and is no good. My life sucks and people will betray you in the end.
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    thejuice
    My insta got hacked and I'm nuclear banned from it now. I don't care enough to fix it lol
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm 😔.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Actually checking the insta social, Miko has not attended the winter social since November 2023. Just noticed it. It is not in one shot this year, and they do it every month. No shock. He probably could not handle the social sensory overload and the ostracized.
    Tony Ramirez
    I nearly lost my earbuds at the park but I was sitting next to an old couple and when I left they told me I left them. If it was a young woman who I nearly say next to instead glad I didn't, she would have not cared and I would have had to pay $50 to buy a new pair. This was not the first time a old person did this randomly.
    Tony Ramirez
    I can't stand when people speak in a foreign language but swear in English.
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    What if they speak English and swear in a language you don't speak yourself?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That never happens.
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    You don't remember ever hearing a person curse in another language?
    I have.
    Not that it matters really.
    Tony Ramirez
    All my friends so far that I told I hate my autism and that I am useless that's four so far said that's not true. I am someone. I am greatly loved,appreciated and special.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm such a miserable person to be around.
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    When you're feeling bad, it's hard to remember that
    that you don't always feel this way and you blame yourself
    for how you feel.
    Tony Ramirez
    When my parents pass away I am practically homeless.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    its a miracle or blessing that your parents had you at a very young age, i doubt my parents will still be in my life by the time i reach my 50s
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I would be homeless or dead if it was not for my parents because of my curse of autism. An normal would be successful as some of normal friends with worse off backgrounds doing much better.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    i've had this mindset for years now, if your a guy, human male, the word owes you nothing, but its the opposite for women, another way to put it, if your a guy, the world is never gonna come to save you, the reverse is not true though.
    Tony Ramirez
    Why were most people's worst years of their lives were the best years of my lives (junior high), while their best years (college/university), were my worst years of my life?
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    thejuice
    my best years were primary school (although i was put down a year). Things steadily got worse as I got older!
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's equivalent to junior high too I think if I am not mistaken as I think in the UK secondary goes up to 16 years old with 2 years optional.
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    thejuice
    Yes that's right Primary is up to 11. Some schools have lower and upper 6th form. Usually you go on to university. Others don't which means you go to work or go to college after..
    Tony Ramirez
    I thought it was weird that I still like watching classic TV shows, cartoons, kids shows and some anime as a adult until I found out it's quite common for adult autistics to do so. So once again I don't feel weird.
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    AprilR
    AprilR
    I am the same way, and i don't care either way. Life is hard enough as it is and if something brings me joy i will keep doing it
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I love classic older movies.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I love iCarly and I thought it was strange that I liked it as a adult but I thought it was one of Nickelodeon best comedies. Better than the crappy new version made for older audience.
    Tony Ramirez
    Two a company. Three a crowd. That is a lie. At least if I try to hang out a solo friend of the opposite gender. Now with a third person it does not matter the gender male or female. Once I did go out to lunch with two of my female friends. Even was invited in mostly girls group at church and home with other men.
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    thejuice
    That's so cool! With me that saying rings true, as I was usually the odd one out
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I was always when I was younger. It finally feels great being accepted, especially by women. I hope the same happens to you.
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    thejuice
    maybe one day!
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm always a nervous wreck when my friends have to fly somewhere thinking they might not come back which is quite often mainly because of their stupid jobs because there employers never think of a thing called VoIP and zoom exists in 2024 and it's not 2005 anymore.
    Tony Ramirez
    I been told by so many people personally that I touched ,changed their lives and have been an inspiration to them.
    Tony Ramirez
    How can a site like quora be as toxic with profanities like reddit when it suppose to be a support site to ask questions? To make matters worse like reddit search engines like Google index it for support.
    Tony Ramirez
    My casual friend is going to now be my former friend after I sent the latest stupid trauma dump message to her about people smoking in the park bothers me every time I tried to read my Bible. It happened every time I try to read it.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    All is good. Once again I blew it out of proportion. She was so busy last night with her hectic job.i think she works at home a lot she had her phone on silent. I feel stupid as usual. But I still had to ask her a question about contacting another friend I know.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Tony, that's good news. Now you have more evidence that the next time you feel this way, there may be no need to worry. And we have this info, too, so that we can remind you not to worry. ☺️
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    thejuice
    I just read a quote on Facebook that said "We suffer more often in our imagination than in reality"
    Tony Ramirez
    Closing my reddit account how? Removing reddit from Google search results because I am sick of the profane results. The last straw was allowing one of the threads about autism to be uncensored and allowing a particular vulgarity in the usernames with even mods allowed to use it even in religions forums.
    PS. Also Quora which I also want to block is pretty profane for a site that supposedly asks questions.
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    thejuice
    Doesn't sound very positive there
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It never is. I don't blame the users. I blame the lack of moderation which makes the users do whatever they want. Since the moderators can obviously curse too even in their user names then you know the users can be out of control. What pushes me over the edge is allowing in on the religious and spiritual reddits.
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    thejuice
    I think if you don't have basic etiquette rules like no swearing it can lead.to other behaviour issues too. Give an inch people take a mile.

    Sounds like it's a younger user base over there maybe.. Web 2.0.. Web 1.0 is where it's at!
    Tony Ramirez
    My casual female friend was baptized today. I was there for her like she was for me. I even got her a gift which you know what it is that she is thankful and is going to read and keep close to her.
    Tony Ramirez
    I told my Thursday life group how thankful that we been together for two years and we have not left like other groups who stop attending. I made two of my female friends cry that they held back their tears.
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