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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Overmedicated Single Aspie RSD NEET 48 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I was so excited approaching and talking to a woman last night that I woke up at 2 am. Had insomnia thinking about it all night tossing and turning. I am so weak and tired I could not do morning yoga. I plan on going to evening yoga.
    Tony Ramirez
    I went to this crowed place tonight. I handled it. I talked to this woman I meet there. We had a nice conversation.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I was so excited talking to her that I woke up at 2 am and could not go back to sleep properly. I been tossing and turning all night. I am so weak I had to skip yoga this morning. I am still tired.
    Tony Ramirez
    I am skipping the gym for two days, going Saturday then taking two days off again . I feel totally exhausted going six days a week and doing yoga seven days including twice Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday evening. I just hope I don't gain weight.
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    annO
    annO
    When you get back to it, consider using a vitamin dense protein drink powder. Mix it with whatever milk or milk alternative you like. Throw in a banana for extra potassium.
    annO
    annO
    Maybe let someone you trust know that you need help to figure it what your body needs for being more active. I hope you get some good rest and feel better soon. Your motivation and dedication to maintaining a workout routine is quite impressive though!
    annO
    annO
    Also, muscle is more dense and heavier than fat. The number of pounds (or kg) won't go down as quickly as the inches (or cm) will. Don't look at the numbers, instead feel how your body moves easier and feel how your mood is changed and notice your posture improving that's where your results start and the body will eventually tone up after all that other stuff happens first.
    Tony Ramirez
    Yoga is really helping me with my social anxiety. I complement an attractive woman at the park on how friendly her dog was. I also talked to an attractive woman after yoga class tonight about the teacher and class. Something I could not do last year.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Hey great news, you are helping others by sharing your success here too. Big shout out to you for sharing your journey.
    Tony Ramirez
    My great day got ruined by my parents, there bad attitude and foul mouths. I hear most profanity from them more than total strangers which is much less.
    Tony Ramirez
    We had church in the park. I socialized with a woman. I sat next to her after for a picnic for over a half hour and chatted. I am getting better at this stuff.
    Tony Ramirez
    Had a stress free day today. Only student at yoga class. Good workout at the gym. Quiet non humid day at the park. Chilling with classic Trance.
    Tony Ramirez
    I was forced to listen to Radiohead - Creep in it's entire and I handled it fine. It was annoying but I stayed calm.
    tree
    tree
    That one word in there bothered you, but you put up with it?

    I like the Haley Reinhart, Postmodern Jukebox cover.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    My friend Justin sung it and played it on guitar at the park last year but he sung the clean version. So much better.
    tree
    tree
    I agree that the F word used as a modifier really doesn't add to the value or meaning of the lyrics.

    I don't miss it when it's not there. (Like in the Haley Reinhart cover.)
    Tony Ramirez
    I been to the yoga and the gym six days this past week. I weight myself today. I am 286 pounds. I lost another 5 pounds this week.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Great news. You are achieving quite alot. It's very hard for people to give up adoration of food, it comforts us. This is control of what you consume. Give yourself a pat on the back. You are cutting down your medical bills. Covid affected people who were way overweight. It really targeted this group. We aren't meant to walk around overweight, it taxes our heart. A orthopedic surgeon and a psychiatrist
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Said this.
    Tony Ramirez
    I approached an attractive woman after yoga how was the class. She was so friendly. She talked to me. She also helped me holding my bag to put my mat in.
    Tony Ramirez
    Google will now force block and blur any cleavage in images even if it's not nude but they will show explicit language uncensored with safe search on.
    tree
    tree
    Sounds like you're dis-satisfied on 2 counts.
    What do you plan to do about that?
    Use another search engine?
    MildredHubble
    MildredHubble
    Any cleavage? Seems a little ridiculous, kinda basically assuming women's bodies are just sexualised objects that need to be hidden and censored. If there were nude images, then I could understand the need to censor. But to be impartial, they should do the same with images of men's chests.
    Misery
    Misery
    I looked this up out of curiosity. The thing can be turned off (so it says, anyway)
    Tony Ramirez
    How can I resist the urge to look at attractive woman? They are literally everywhere.
    tree
    tree
    This urge to look isn't the problem, is it?
    If there's a *problem* it would be what you say to yourself when
    you see them.
    Tony Ramirez
    Why are there no events Friday or Saturday evening for me? Those nights are so boring for me.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Room for trying something totally new, perhaps?
    Tony Ramirez
    I though third time was a charm. That woman I been talking to was at the Wednesday dinner this evening. At the end I took a elevator and walked her outside to say goodnight. I still chickened out by not exchanging numbers.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    What if you forget about getting her number and just enjoy her company so you are not stressing about it?

    Then you could relax and let things happen naturally.

    There is no rule stating you must
    1. Speak to girl.
    2. Exchange numbers.
    3. Coffee date.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    She said she was single so now I know that. But you are right. I enjoy her company. I do get overwhelmed and stressed thinking of those three rules.
    Tony Ramirez
    Once again after church I talked to a woman I meet last week. Again I had an opportunity to ask to exchange numbers during the end of our conversation as she seem interesting in talking to me more, but I blew it by saying nothing, chickened out yet again.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It just seems like a perfect opportunity missed. I did Google "too afraid to ask a girl her number" and it's quite common, not a ASD thing either.
    tree
    tree
    Sounds like you're close to the time when asking for a number
    will be a thing you can do. When it's comfortable enough for
    you, you'll do it.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    I keep on telling you to think like a cat. My little furballs are never shy about asking for what they want.
    Tony Ramirez
    Except for spotting two woman at the park, every woman had a man attracted to them.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I know that. I have to believe that.
    AdamG
    AdamG
    Are you going to the park for the sole purpose of meeting women? Are you not going to also enjoy the park?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    A little bit of both. But I go just about anywhere to meet woman. It's a part of me. I know. I can't help it.
    Tony Ramirez
    My complaints journal is been getting less complaints this past two weeks. Been getting more neutral and positive things.
    AdamG
    AdamG
    You are awesome. I have seen you grow so much in just a few weeks. :)
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