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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Aspie grapples fear of unlove and rejection 48 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I'm so lonely. My so called new friends ditched me today. I went to the gym but that was lonely and there was a couple there exercise around me.
    I'm at Cobble Hill Park where I am 100% ignored by everyone and there are couples here too.
    Tony Ramirez
    How can I attempt to even ask a woman out for a coffee date when they mention a boyfriend or a husband when I get to talk to them? Kind of ruined it. Embarrassing.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry. I fail alot too in relationships.
    Tony Ramirez
    A woman told me after yoga class that I inspired her to come back to do more yoga due to me coming every morning to class.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    That would have felt so good to me. It shows that your consistency and dedication at the yoga studio has been noticed.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Too bad she has a husband.
    Tony Ramirez
    Back at the gym now. It feels good seeing things back to normal again. Got scared this week. Even got good sleep last night.
    Tony Ramirez
    I did get wished a happy birthday by all the yoga students today even the nice attractive woman next to me. I said thank you to her.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tunnel vision kicking in again woman I wanted to talk to in yoga finally talked to me. Was going good until she mentions a husband yet again falls into the 95% taken woman. I was still polite and talked to her but yet again all woman have boyfriends or husbands.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's true. All the nice ones I meet except for two in my life groups that said they were single the rest all have husbands or boyfriends.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Also she knows a lot of woman. She makes friends with other yogis women easily. To gather with them to do yoga. I can only dream.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Also forgot to say she said I inspired her to come to more classes when she saw me come every morning.
    Tony Ramirez
    I just weight myself now I am 305 pounds. No thanks to the stupid face masks that I could not go to the gym. What a unhappy birthday this is.
    Misery
    Misery
    Hey, for what it's worth, you're doing sooooooo much better than you were before. Seriously. All the progress you've made, it's impressive, and it's worth being proud of.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks.
    Tony Ramirez
    People who wear face masks get loving relationships, while I refuse to wear them. I get loneliness, phobia's and rejections. Makes no sense.
    tree
    tree
    You're right.
    There's no logical connection between those at all.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    No logical connection, agreed.
    Tony Ramirez
    If I have to hear one more time a woman I am interested that she mentions having a boyfriend in a general conversation I might just say something nasty to her. I am sick of hearing that annoying word.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It did get it. Sorry. Also my yoga teacher Tashya said I should write more positive things in my journal instead of writing mean negative things about myself and then reading then later. To delete them.
    tree
    tree
    Maybe you could color code the remarks. Like, take a highlighter and color the positive remarks with
    a color that you like.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Good idea.
    Tony Ramirez
    Because of my Maskaphobia and my fear of being lonely creeping up again my insomnia is now back and I am having trouble getting to sleep.
    Judge
    Judge
    Keep track of weather forecasts. Toxic smoke migrating and circulating can last awhile, but not indefinitely. Once the smoke goes, so will most of the masks.
    Tony Ramirez
    Just insulted my father when he told me if I wore mask out tonight. I barely survived tonight.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Not really. Felt sorry after.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    I would’ve felt the same. Sounds frustrating, Tony. I hope things with masks get easier for you.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I did just apologize to my father. It just was not the masks. A woman I meet at the dinner I wanted to know more got crushed when she mentioned a boyfriend. This happened to three woman this past two weeks. One said a husband.
    Tony Ramirez
    A lot of people are wearing masks out today and it's annoying. I am at the tipping point.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    There’s quite a lot of smoke out there! They are scared, just like you, but for opposite reasons.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's what my uncle said. There had to be a reason. My mother said not to walk to the gym today because of this. This sucks. I hate face masks and I still refuse to wear them.
    Tony Ramirez
    Everytime I talk to a woman I am interested in eventually she mentions a husband or a boyfriend even though if she is married she is not wearing a ring. Then I feel like listening to Drone Zone all day.
    Tony Ramirez
    I weight myself this morning. I gained two pounds. I am now 302. I can't believe it. All the intense yoga workout and the gym for nothing. I will not reach my goal of under 300 by this Friday. I am not pleased.
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