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  1. sarepta

    Can a person be a special interest?

    I would like to point out that intense interest also can make people feel really special. When you lose interest in them they might get hurt.
  2. sarepta

    Letting go

    @Gritches Thank you for that long and thoughtful response. A lot of what you are suggesting I write to her I feel I already did when I apologized for emailing her in the first place. So I think I got the message through. And even though it sounds tempting to shift the feeling of power...
  3. sarepta

    Letting go

    Yes, that is one of the many things I have learned after reading a lot of posts here and for me it's probably one of the things I find the most heartbreaking.
  4. sarepta

    Letting go

    Not going to try to argue on that. But, in general, how can an "outsider" know the difference? I read about people pushing others away, though they don't want to, and express sadness because people disappear from their lives. Some also express anger because NT's, like me, can't deal with...
  5. sarepta

    Letting go

    I will try to keep this first one short. When I first came to this forum I wrote about how I had met a wonderful woman this summer. How we developed a close relationship, but then she ended it quite abruptly because of her physical illness. I didn't know how to deal with it, and I got a lot of...
  6. sarepta

    The puzzle piece problem. An apology.

    Thanks for all the replies! And really cool to read what you think about this and also to see your suggestions for symbols.
  7. sarepta

    The puzzle piece problem. An apology.

    This was more like a -just in case. In the forumpost I read, I understood that quite a lot of people on the forum thinks the puzzle piece is provocative, something I really understand after reading their arguments.
  8. sarepta

    The puzzle piece problem. An apology.

    I recently came across an old thread discussing the puzzle piece being used as a symbol for autism, and I want to apologize for having used it. What I didn't realize was the fact that the puzzle-symbol, as far as I understood from the thread, is made up by NT's . And for a lot of people on the...
  9. sarepta

    Does anybody else's obsessions cause them to feel negative emotions?

    I know I'm NT and I assume you are talking about special interests, but what you are describing is exactly how I feel when I'm in love. So even if I have never experienced this in terms of a SpIn, I still can relate to the feeling. It's sad that you feel that you have to pull yourself away from...
  10. sarepta

    fallout

    I have only played Fallout 4, but loved it. Unfortunately I got a bit tired of playing it after some hundred hours, but I often miss the atmosphere and being in there. In those cases I watch some fallout-videos on Youtube. Really exited about Fallout 76 though.
  11. sarepta

    I'M SO DONE!!!!

    I am so sorry to hear about this! Please don't give up. The world is full of idiots, especially in high-school but there are some good people out here too.
  12. sarepta

    I can't cope being a single parent

    Do you live somewhere where it's possible to get some help? Taking the load off your shoulders for a while?
  13. sarepta

    Post a random Google image of the first vehicle you drove.

    A Simca. No idea what model, but they stopped making them in 1979.
  14. sarepta

    “Mild” Autism?

    Thank you for sharing the link! As so many of the things I read on and via this forum, it is eyeopening!
  15. sarepta

    Explaining alone time in a relationship?

    As an NT I would have appreciated full honesty about the needs regarding alone time. Like - Is it ok if I send messages during that time, just to say I'm here, or would you prefer total quiet? For how long does the need for alone-time usually last? Also, I would probably have liked to be pointed...
  16. sarepta

    What should I wear to the "Ball" tomorrow? Batman costume or shirt/tie/trousers?

    I'd go for formal too. Hope you have a great time!
  17. sarepta

    How to answer Where are you from?

    @Pats Ok, then I see how things might get complicated. Cause, i guess, when you say "No, they are not" they keep asking questions, or at least expect you to explain?
  18. sarepta

    How to answer Where are you from?

    But of course, the accent might be a reason they ask. And if you say Ohio, but sound like you're from a completely different state, I can see that some people might get confused...
  19. sarepta

    How to answer Where are you from?

    @Pats I think if people asked you and you said you were from Ohio, I don't imagine anyone would question why you didn't say Virginia. My first year I lived in a city far from the town where I grew up. If people ask me where I'm from I never mention my first year in the city, but I tell them...
  20. sarepta

    How to answer Where are you from?

    If I ask where someone's from, I usually mean their origin. So, I guess the place they grew up. When someone ask me I usually tell them where I grew up, but I also say that I feel more home in the capital, where I lived for several years. I might talk more about why I moved from here to there...
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