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36 and still feeling like I did when I was 17.

Rodafina said:
Maybe you can try to also notice feelings of hope, determination, acceptance, and gratitude.
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Wish I'd read this comment before replying right away. Neural plasticity studies/positive psychology have shown that you can actually train your brain to start looking for positives instead of focusing on the negatives. If for example you start writing down 3 positive things a day that happened after a few weeks your brain will be on the look out during the day for more positive things. And it's not that the percentage of positive things increases, but your awareness of them does as at the same point the focus on the negatives goes down.

As someone that started doing this about a year ago, it's worked for me. Bad things still happen but I deal with it and move on and I'm less apt to dwell on it.
 
I feel both disappointed and embarrassed after being told “My boyfriend wouldn’t like that.” once again.
 
Markness said:
I feel both disappointed and embarrassed after being told “My boyfriend wouldn’t like that.” once again.
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What happened that lead to her saying that? Did you ask her to hang out and do something like play video games or go out and do something together?

I hope that I'm not coming off as accusatory, I'm curious to know what happened.
 
honeytoast said:
What happened that lead to her saying that? Did you ask her to hang out and do something like play video games or go out and do something together?

I hope that I'm not coming off as accusatory, I'm curious to know what happened.
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I am having a hard time typing it out. I am just really stressed at the moment.
 
honeytoast said:
That's okay. I hope you feel better soon.
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Thank you. It doesn’t help that some people outside of here I had to block and set my YouTube channel on private because said people were spamming my intro video on Discord and making fun of it.

EDIT: I just learned that one of those people wants to make an account on here and bother me.
 
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